A Lolita's Life
Hi! I’m Lolita and I am a Little!
I’m also in a Polyamorous Triad with my Husband (Hubs) and my Daddy. This blog is all about my consensual ADULT Daddy Dom/little girl dynamic (DD/lg role play in a safe, sane, consensual manner).
We do not practice, participate in, or condone incest or pedophilia.
18+ Only. NSFW.
I follow: #alolitaslife and #a-lolitas-life
What will you see here?:
Plenty of Naughty and not so naughty DD/lg themed pictures and content. Some of myself and some I’ve stumbled across along the net/tumblr. There will also be plenty of my own writings (which I try to post one a day) on my progress exploring my “Lolita/Little” side in my BDSM/Kink friendly lifestyle, Polyamory, and much more. Feel free to Write/Ask me things. I’ll do my best to share my personal experiences, opinions, and thoughts on any topic you might ask me about.
(My Email: [email protected])
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Calling all Bigs and Littles out there! You are invited to a very special event:
A Live Tinychat Littles Panel hosted by Daddy Vinnie & Lolita
~MARK your CALENDARS and then REBLOG! Let’s get the word out!!~
Who?: Anyone who identifies as (OR Supports) Littles or Bigs within the DD/lg and Age Play dynamic. (Mommies, Daddies, Bigs, Caregivers, ABDL, Littles, Middles, Babygirls, Pets, Kittens…and so on.)
What?: A Tinychat Littles Panel Discussion to discuss all things Little and spend time with your favorite Big and Little tumblr friends!!
Where?: Tinychat! (We will have our own Private Room with passwords to keep outsiders out!) I’ll post a link to our private room and the password about 15 minutes before the Panel starts!
When?: Sunday November 23, 2014 at 8:30pm PST (Time Zone Calculator)
What do you need to do/bring?!:
• Please feel free to dress up in any Big or Little gear! Wear whatever you like, we want you to dress in what makes you feel comfortable!!
• We will have some great Panel Topics and Questions to discuss to keep everyone chatting as well, so if you have any specific topics or questions you’d like to have the panel of Littles address, send them to me and I’ll keep them on a list!
• You’re welcome to Text chat during the Panel Discussion and then Cam/Voice/Text or any combination of the three for our social time to follow. We prefer anyone who joins us to participate!
• When you Log into the room PLEASE sign in with your Tumblr URL (or enough of it) so that we recognize you. It helps keep the creepers out.
RULES: (Please read because if these are broken you’ll be banned and not invited to future parties.)
• THERE IS ABSOLUTELY ZERO TOLERANCE FOR ANY INAPPROPRIATE BEHAVIOR AT THIS PANEL DISCUSSION, OR YOU WILL BE BANNED.
• THIS IS NOT A PICK UP PARTY EITHER, SO IF YOU COME TRYING TO HOOK UP WITH SOMEONE ELSE AT THE EVENT, YOU’LL BE BANNED AS WELL.
• Quick Multi-Posting (spamming the chat) is an auto-ban by Tinychat as it is one of the website’s rules so just a heads up!
**Please respect these three very important rules and it will be a GREAT Tinychat!**
If you can make it to the Live Tinychat Littles Panel, please send Lolita or Daddy Vinnie a message so that we can keep count of attendance!
if you’d like to contribute towards the Discussion topics or questions that will be addressed by the Panel, please send them via Ask or Fan Mail to Daddy Vinnie or Lolita!!
Can’t wait to see you there!!
Lolita and the Panel of Littles!
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Strawberry Sweet Lolita Hair Bow
Made some pretty art for Daddy!
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Daddy wrote a FANTASTIC recap of the LittleSpace Disneyland Trip 2014 and I wanted to share it here too! I really hope this amazing event continues to grow as it has each year. I hope to see you next year… it will be the first weekend of October 2015! Start planning now!
LittleSpace Disneyland Trip 2014 Recap
Wow! Just Wow! We had a fantastic time at the 2014 LittleSpace Disneyland Trip. If you only have one vacation to take, start saving now for a three-day weekend at Disneyland in Anaheim, California for the first weekend in October. It’s TRULY as big as a Little’s Christmas - the high holy day of the year!
In all, we had 52 individual people come to the associated events for LittleSpace Disneyland! FIFTY-TWO! THANK YOU to each and everyone of you. In no particular order, there was -
Me (Daddy Vinnie), my Lolita, Teal, Alan, Sabby Jake, Alan (2), Alyssa, Dave, Hannah, Arden, Lizzie, Jenna, Treasure, Sean, Renee, Jack, Olive, Kevin, Lindsey, Conrad, Tristy, Donnie, Craig, Lizzie (2), Sean, Belle, Lesley, Ericka, Mark, Angie, Corrin, Becky (Apples), Caelu, LadySolaris, Nina, Matt, Spencer, Ashle, Wolff, John, Cas, Jul, Carolanne, Katie, Zacci, Jesbian, Chris, Donnie’s 4 friends! (I think that’s 52!).
If I missed you or spelled your name incorrectly, please let me know!
We had people from the Washington, D.C. area, Pittsburgh, PA, Michigan, Arizona, all over the California Bay Area (Fremont, San Francisco, Sacramento) and all over Los Angeles, Orange and San Diego counties. Wow… what a great turn out!
On Friday, Oct. 3, we hosted a pool and pizza party at the Anaheim Plaza Hotel and Suites and had about 20 of us in the pool and hot tub and pizza by the pool. We watched Disneyland fireworks and agreed to meet up at the Plaza Inn in Disneyland for an All-You-Can-Eat Character Breakfast.
We had 32 people show up for the breakfast and had a great group picture taken.
Lolita and I went on Space Mountain right after our big breakfast.. haha… maybe not the best choice we’ve ever made. haha. :)
We split up a bit and went on some rides and then had lunch at the Pizza Port - we had 27 people meet up for lunch, including our friends from the L.A area, whom we had met the previous year at LittleSpace Disneyland 2013! We made arrangements to meet about 5:30 or 6:00 to sit and wait for several hours for the Fantasmic show!
Oh, what fun. We had between 22 and 25 people for Fantasmic! So much fun. Afterwards, Lolita and I and Teal and Alan went on the Haunted Mansion late at night and on Pirates of the Caribbean! woo hoo! no long lines because everyone was watching the 2nd Fantasmics show.
We had a small turn out for the iHop Breakfast but a good one, with some peeps coming out for the second year in a row to spend the day with us.
Then at 2:00 on Sunday, Oct. 5, at Flo’s V-8 diner in A California Adventure, Lolita and I hosted A Big Little Discussion on the road for about 20 or so people, including many new friends! We split up the couples and had a discussion with mostly Littles on one side and mostly Daddies/Caregivers on the other.
That ended the official events for the weekend.
Lolita and I and Teal and Alan were able to see Ariel and 4 of her Princess friends (Belle, Snow White, Tiana, and Cinderella) at Ariel’s Grotto. What fun, especially since Ariel is Lolita’s favorite Princess of all.
The best part of the weekend, besides seeing Lolita in LittleSpace almost the entire time, was being able to spend so much time and ride rides with a big group. I think we had 16 for the Matterhorn, we took up an entire boat of 15 for It’s a Small World, and a big group went on Star Tours together. We rode Tower of Terror several times, once with a group of 12 or 13.
All in all, it was a fantastic time! We’ve made some lasting friends, people we hope to see throughout the year.
Planning is in the beginning stages for next year.
Lolita and i and Teal and Alan ended up at the Mad T Party in A California Adventure and saw a great band there and listened to some Deejay music and saw some stage dancers and performers. We’re thinking of changing up some of the events to include some activities for “middles” for next years - another reason for Daddies and Mommies and CLs to keep tighter leashes or to chase them over there to see the great show.
I highly encourage everyone who sees this to pass it around to those interested in the 2015 version of LittleSpace Disneyland Trip - first weekend of October.
We will be there! Until then………… here’s to happily ever after, all over again.
- Daddy Vinnie
p.s. now we return you to the regular broadcast of Daddy Vinnie’s Rough and Tumble, with new features coming soon.
Daddy never lets go…
Heading to The Big Little Discussion!! If you’re in San Diego, I hope you can make it out!! Also… You can see my bracelet collar!!
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Follower Question: I feel like I’m stuck. I love my boyfriend, he is more than I could ask for but I want a Daddy/Dom so badly and he is not that. He isn’t open to a poly relationship either. Every time I read your blog it makes my heart ache. You are so lucky Lo. Xoxo
I think this is something that is VERY important for you to communicate with your partner just like you did with me. If your interests are something that you cannot set aside for your partners limitations, it’s vital that you communicate that with them.
What is a relationship where one or both (or more) of the partners are not having their needs met and feel miserable?
I’d start with communication always. You should feel welcome to sit down with the person you love and express your concerns, desires, interests, limitations and so on. Always.
Communication is the place to start!
how the bi-bros get fit quick
Hi! Lo I hope you don’t mind me asking but I think you are so cute and I love all your outfits in your post and I was just wondering what size you are because I’m a 26/28 and I can’t find anything but you’re tiny so everything you have is just adorable thanks again.
I’m a size 16/18… and up and down from there depending on the brand… of course… >:(
I shop anywhere and everywhere that carries my size… even if that means my calling the store and flat out asking before I bother shopping in a beautiful store I know I don’t fit in.
Every town is different so don’t be afraid to search all the big (AND SMALL) clothing stores in your area and find where your sizes are! Then go crazy.
Online shopping is always great too, but of course the risk (for anyone regardless of size) is having something shipped to you that just doesnt fit. You can always send it back if it doesnt fit, but I prefer finding places near me.
Hope that’s helpful!
Every night!!! You don’t even have to ask!!!
I’ve been trying to learn some different makeup techniques to change up my routine here and there. Tonight is one of the BDSM community socials that Daddy and I host and I usually go full Little Slut mode (which I LOVE). So… trying to shape my brows, contour a little, and do the dredded wing…
Tonight it was a mild success!
If you guys have any favorite Makeup Tutorial Videos PLEASE send me links!!!
Enjoy “Big” me (and even with my bangs swept to the side)!
I wonder what I have to do for extra credit ?
receiving many like this?
Letting -You- Free - ALolitasLife
Sometimes being open and honest with others about how you’re feeling and what you’re thinking when you are truly being your most precious, secret, naughty self can be unnerving. But then there comes a time when you’re able to break away from those thoughts that seem to bind you down. That worry of what others might think or say when they get the “real” uncut… RAW you. And when you get there, or someone like your Dom, Lover, Daddy, Master… helps you break down and let go. You feel solid, sound, strong, you burn hot with this new freedom, this honest opening of yourself. It’s really the best feeling you could ever have throb in your heart.
Whoever he is, the one who sets you free, your hands, heart, and soul will reach and crave him forever.
It’s… Gonna take me a bit to get to you all. Thanks for being patient!!!
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"He slips into my room. Dawn only just bursting it’s daisy yellow flames onto my bed. It paints over my bared flesh, rising and falling with my chest. Soft breaths singing my dreams with each exhale. Not a sound he’d make…closer, closer until his fingertips hover but a hairline above my sleeping eyes. His tender stare hugging me, pulling me in, and wrapping me in his arms before our bodies even collide. His breath caught in his lungs, a blessing he gives me by letting just a few more precious moments of sheer peace in my sleep… a calm before his storm. A Gift. His exhale matches mine as his fire glows hotter, and in my slumber a deep stir… an innocent knowledge that he’s there. That his bluster is a heartbeat away. I squirm, but I do not grant my own waking… he takes it from me. It’s his to take. And with one final and weightless brush of his fingertips to my cheek he dives… lighting… his hand into my hair. "Daddy…" is all I manage to lovingly…sharply… breathe out to kiss his ears. Thunder. Rain. Daddy."