A Lolita's Life
Hi! I’m Lolita and I am a Little!
I’m also in a Polyamorous Triad with my Husband (Hubs) and my Daddy. This blog is all about my consensual ADULT Daddy Dom/little girl dynamic (DD/lg role play in a safe, sane, consensual manner).
We do not practice, participate in, or condone incest or pedophilia.
18+ Only. NSFW.
I follow: #alolitaslife and #a-lolitas-life
What will you see here?:
Plenty of Naughty and not so naughty DD/lg themed pictures and content. Some of myself and some I’ve stumbled across along the net/tumblr. There will also be plenty of my own writings (which I try to post one a day) on my progress exploring my “Lolita/Little” side in my BDSM/Kink friendly lifestyle, Polyamory, and much more. Feel free to Write/Ask me things. I’ll do my best to share my personal experiences, opinions, and thoughts on any topic you might ask me about.
(My Email: [email protected])
(Globe Visit Tracker Started: Jan 12, 2013)
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For those asking:
1. The (sideways, sorry) flag with the small red heart and black, white, and blue stripes is the Leather Pride Flag.
2. The light blue circle pin with the rainbow heart and infinity symbol is a variation of the “Heart-and-Infinity” Polyamory pride symbol.
I also wore (but you can’t see them):
3. Two additional Polyamory pins: “I’m with <—-Them—->” and “Poly & Proud”
4. A Leather Realm pin (the circle, seen here).
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Who is going to be at San Diego Comic Con this Friday?!
If you’re going to be there and you’d like to meet up, shoot me a message!
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my little pony
So Kat, Teal, and I picked our pony marks for today!! I love playing with face paint! I’m starting to get decent skills!!
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I’m selling some left over sleep masks from my past etsy collections to make room for some new products. Each sleep mask is $10 and $2 for shipping (US only) if you want one leave a message below with your paypal email below and which mask you want. Please make sure that your paypal address if correct because i will be shipping to that address. #cute #kawaii #mooeyandfriends #sleepmasks #crochet #handmade
Got the most adorable fox hair clip today and a match broach! Guess who’s going full fox for Pride on Sunday?!
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Who is going to San Diego PRIDE this year?!
Dates & Times: Saturday (July 19, 2014): 12:00 to 10:00 PM and Sunday (July 20, 2014: 11:00 AM to 8:00 PM.
Well if you plan to come to PRIDE, make sure you stop by the Leather Realm! This year will be the first year the Leather Realm will have an Ageplay/Petplay tent and we couldn’t be more excited!!
There will be information on some of the local clubs as well as FREE Balloon animals, face painting, candy, and even an awesome Give Away!!
We hope you can make it out and meet some of the Bigs, Littles, Pets, and Owners while supporting PRIDE and the Leather Realm!
If you want to help, please contact me privately!
Hope to see ALL you awesome followers that can make it there!!
It’s this weekend!!!
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I’m Afraid to ‘Come Out’ as a Little…
…it’s hard having to hide my little side whenever my friends or my partner comes over, but I’m afraid of being judged. Do you know of any ways I could find ways to express the little part of me so that I stop feeling like I’m crawling out of my skin by hiding it?
I think the best advice I can give you is for YOU to really sit down and think about what it is that’s holding you back from being yourself in front of the people you love? Is it fear of judgement only? Or is it something more?
Take time to evaluate the people you’re spending your time with, sometimes when we do that we notice that there are people we spend time with that are really poisenous for us. People who truly judge and make us FEAR to be ourselves. If that is the case, are those really people you want in your life?
However, if it’s your shyness that seems to be the reasoning behind why you are nervous about sharing your little side, try starting with one person. Someone who you love and trust fully, someone who you know will understand better than anyone else. Be ready to answer lots of questions. Be ready to share educational resources with that person if they need it. Be ready for some confused facial expressions… but most important, be ready to be patient!
In my opinion, I only want to have people in my life who accept and love me fully for who I am. I’m not asking anyone to enjoy my interests or even approve of them, but what I demand is love, acceptance, and respect.
I am who I am for ME and if someone doesn’t accept ME, then I remove ME from that relationship.
Thought this panda pic needed an update.
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it was a joke obviously but...burn
Sent this to all my snap chat buddies today.
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How Polyamory has Helped me and my “Little” Grow - ALolitasLife
As most of you may already know, I’m not only active in a Daddy/little dynamic, but I live and thrive in a polyamorous household. I have my husband (Hubs) which I share a very vanilla domestic relationship with (and two beautiful Minions) and then I have my DD/lg relationship with my Daddy and we all live under one roof.
Often times the different aspects of my multiple relationships seem to mix quite fluidly into one big experience. My DD/lg relationship with my Daddy is very much something we share one-on-one however, there are certainly times where aspects of my DD/lg lifestyle merge into my relationship with my husband and even my other secondary play partners and friends. For example, there are times that Hubs plays into my DD/lg dynamic with my Daddy by attempting to get me “in trouble with my Dad” or going over my head to ask my Daddy permission to play with me such as, “Vinnie, can I fuck your daughter?” and so on. With these different interactions with people who are outside of my Daddy/little dynamic with Vinnie, I have found that being able to share that part of myself with other partners not only supports my dynamic with Daddy, but has enhanced our Daddy/little dynamic and all other relationships as a whole.
I believe I have grown quite a bit since my first days exploring my Little side. I use to grip that part of myself so tightly that I could hardly share it with anyone but me. I limited my inner Little and outer interactions because I was selfish and protective of my Little side. Even in the beginning of my dynamic with Daddy, I was possessive of my Little Headspace and was so set in my ways to “only share it with myself and one other.” Although there are still parts of my DD/lg dynamic that is only to share between Daddy and me, I have grown to understand that loosening that death grip on my Little side has helped me to share deeper bonds with my other partners as well as with my friends and community. I am opening doors and letting my Little run free of my once prison of selfishness.
Polyamory has changed me in more ways than I can ever truly express. I’m becoming more open and loving and selfless. I am becoming more encouraging of limitless love and sharing vulnerabilities with those who deserve it. I’m stomping away those walls of my once tiny box of “limitations” and allowing for growth and development in whatever aspects of life and love come my way.
Most importantly, I’m sharing ME with so many people who I love dearly and allowing my different dynamics to merge and grow as one true Love.
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I forgot to tell you guys I got an adult sized paci!! It’s pink and adorable and helps me practice for Daddy’s Loli!
Hi beautiful Boo,
We live in town and my yard is the size of a postage stamp, which is perfect for me because I have a black thumb and the fewer things for me to kill, the better. My favorite thing in my yard are my trellises of coral honeysuckle and they are blooming this week. The way they hang makes my yard feel like a cozy, verdant room, and I come out here every chance I get in the summer. Come visit and we’ll sip cocktails under their shade.
At first glimpse i was sure this was a painting. The color was too verdant, the images to crystal clear. Boo, this is by far the best photo you’ve taken for me. You look angelic - the only thing better would be the opportunity to lick honeysuckle off your fingertips. I’m coming soon, i promise.
Oh wow. I dream of taking pictures like this.
Calling all Daddies, Littles, Caregivers, Bigs, ABDLs, Pets and everyone in between!
Come play at the Happiest Place on Earth!
********LittleSpace Disneyland Trip 2014!!!********
There is no place like Disneyland to bring out the Little in all of us! Bring your friends and meet other littles and Bigs! Stay for a day or for the weekend! Join us for meals or do your own thing! Hang out in groups, or enjoy some one-on-one Big/little time! We just want to see you there!
(This event coincides with Gay Days in Anaheim! Wear red to show your pride and support!)
Here is the event page on FETLIFE where you can RSVP and keep up to date on any information about the Littlespace Disneyland Trip 2014!!
Friday October 3rd: Pizza Party at Anaheim Plaza Hotel
7:00pm - Pizza Pool Party at Anaheim Plaza Hotel! (Hosted by Daddy Vinnie & Lolita)
Come swim in the pool or soak in the hot tub, eat pizza, and make new friends! (Please bring a small donation for purchase of Round Table Pizza.) The party ends after the fireworks, around 10pm.
Saturday October 4th: Disneyland Day!
8:00am - Breakfast at River Belle Terrace in Frontierland!
Eat Mickey Mouse pancakes, giggle, meet new people, and make plans for the day! At 9am, we will depart to our first ride: Pirates of the Caribbean in New Orleans Square! After Pirates, we will go our separate ways to enjoy the park!
1:00pm/1:30pm - Lunch at Space Place (outside Space Mountain)
Take a break from your day with a quick lunch with all the Bigs and littles! Maybe even make plans to ride a few rides together!
6:00pm - Get ready for Fantasmic! & Fireworks!
Bring a beach towel and claim your seat for the show! We will gather along the river’s edge just across from Pirates of the Caribbean at 6pm SHARP. Relax, chat with friends, and take turns reserving our space. Come and go as you please. Fantasmic! starts at 9pm and is immediately followed by the Fireworks Spectacular at 9:35pm, so stay seated!
Start time TBA to end around 1:30am - Meet and Greet (Location TBA)
Come meet with Daddy Vinnie and Lolita to make new Big/little friends and enjoy a social hour or two to wind down from the day! Since this is a more private environment, the sexual aspects of Big/little and ABDL topics can be appropriately discussed if interested. ((BYOB)) If you’re interested in this event, please contact Daddy Vinnie for the details
Sunday October 5th: California Adventure Day!
8:30am - Breakfast at *IHOP on 1560 S. Harbor Blvd
It’s across from the Disneyland Resort entrance. Start the day with new friends and a casual breakfast. We will depart at 9:30am and meander to California Adventure! This is the perfect event to attend if perhaps you’re unable to come inside the parks or to any of the previous meet ups!!
1:00pm - Group Ride at The Twilight Zone Tower of Terror!
Let’s all gather together to ride The Twilight Zone Tower of Terror! Let’s try and fill a whole car with Bigs and Littles! Afterwards, we will all walk together to the Lunch Discussion!
2:00pm - A Big Little Discussion Lunch at Flo’s V8 Cafe!
Come participate in a fun lunch discussion on all things Age Play, ABDL, Pet Play, and Daddy/little of all types! Of course since the discusssion is at a public venue it will be non-sexual and environment appropriate. Just like any fetlife public event, everyone is aware there are certain things you can and cannot discuss. There will be public friendly topic questions at hand! The San Diego “A Big Little Discussion Group” focuses on education and support for Littles and their caregivers who participate in consensual adult role play and relationships. We are a pansexual group and welcome all dynamics and sexual orientations. Come have lunch with us at Flo’s and join in an open discussion with other Bigs and Littles!
Travel & Accommodations:
Ride Amtrak or fly JetBlue - [http://www.jetblue.com].
Stay at the Anaheim Plaza Hotel & Suites - [http://www.anaheimplazahotel.com]
Spread the word, invite your friends, shout it out at the top of your lungs because it’s a Littles event for everyone!
If you have ANY questions please contact: Daddy Vinnie or Lolita.
Hope to see you there!
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My outfit today is more than just “cute” - A-Lolitas-Life
Today is the first day since High School that I’m wearing an outfit that shows my midriff. I would say I’ve been happy and body positive for months, but my last little area where I still shy away from showing, is my tummy. It had some damn good battle scars. Three surgeries and two pregnancies later, it looks like a tiger got it’s claws on me. Until today I always felt like maybe showing them might make people turn up their nose at me.
But what is there to be afraid of? I’m happy, healthy, I am loved and I love deeply, I’m supported by incredible people (*pointing at my followers too*) and I have more self love than ever before. I’m wearing this outfit for me. I’m wearing because my body is beautiful!
Happy Lolita is happy!!
Love yourself today,