Large Labia Project
I have medium-large labia. I have meaty outer lips, & long thick inner lips. And my inner labia are different sizes. I love my labia. But some women don't love theirs. Many women see unrealistic images and listen to misguided opinions and think their labia should be neat, small & invisible to be "normal". This blog is all about fighting that view, by showing how perfectly normal and beautiful large labia are. Really they're nothing special though, the average woman has them! Anyway I'll show you mine & feel free to submit yours.
Photos of my labia

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Hey everyone! Today is the day that I’ll finally submit my own labia! After seeing all the beautiful vaginas here, I was ready to submit mine too! I’ve been very insecure about mine too. I didn’t want to have a boyfriend, because I was afraid that he was going to say something about my labia. So that’s one of the reasons that I always said no to a boy. So stupid! I also thought about labiaplasty. When I saw your website, I immediately fell in love. From then, I checked it almost everyday. I also pushed myself to look at my vagina a little bit more and I became happier and happier with my lady. Now I take care of her really well, and I think I can tell you all that I really love her! I like my clit and the ‘shape’ of my vagina, sounds that weird haha? I’m also thinking about giving her a name, haha. I hope you enjoy my labia as much is I do now. THANKS EMMA! Love, a 20-year-old girl.
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Thank you so much for sharing, and thank you for loving your labia, because they are very beautiful. I think the idea of naming your pussy is really cute, and lots of girls do it :) That’s so awesome that you’re a happy bunny. Thanks for being brave and sharing yourself and your inspirational story here.
Much love,
Emma

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Submission: “This is my vulva. I used to hate my protruding lips and the fact that they were so dark. When aroused my clit would double in size and was massive. I thought there was something wrong with me. Now I have realised it is completely normal. I am more than confident and love them. My partners have loved them to and have said they are great to play with and very sexy to look at. Thank you. x”
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I love body-positive posts like this! That’s awesome to hear, and your story will help other girls appreciate that they are completely normal too. Thanks so much.
Emma
xo

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ok, so at first i wasn’t going to type my story out, because i figured i’d bore everyone. but, then, i realized that a few girls might still be dealing with what i dealt with/am dealing with now, so i decided to type it out.
In 6th grade, when i was starting to go through puberty, I walked out of the shower and my sister said “ew! what’s that pink thing?” (innocently, because she had an ‘innie’ and couldn’t have possibly known about labia minora, since neither of us had gone through sex education). Either way, that started my self-consciousness with my vulva.
Then, in 7th grade, when I went through sexual education, things got even tougher. My textbook showed no pictures of visible outer labia minora, though it showed many variations of pubic hair. I was convinced I wasn’t normal. Later, during that class, my teacher made a very ignorant comment - “If you look down and something is sticking out, you might want to see a doctor. Even at this young age, it could be cancer. Don’t be embarassed and save your life.” ???? WTF ….all genitalia are going through changes during puberty, doesn’t mean the person who the genitalia belong to has cancer ???!!!!
I was too young to know that, though, so I spent about 4 years of my life convinced I was developing a fatal case of cancer, because I was too embarrassed to tell anyone about my vulva. I wouldn’t kiss anyone out of fear they would stick their hands down my pants and laugh at me. To complicate matters, one of my friends (who I’ve since cut out from my life - she is a very toxic and body/sex-negative person) would make comments all the time about how ‘gross’ long labia were.
Finally, I told my mom (who is a doctor) what was going on (she had noticed that when I wore swimsuits, I would always cross my legs and not take off my shorts till the last moment). She laughed at me and said “Cancer ??!! You are perfectly normal! All vulva come in different shapes and sizes. I’m sure your future boyfriend will love them.” It was an extremely pivotal and happy moment for me.
I finally had my first kiss in junior year of high school. Though it wasn’t the greatest, he fingered me & kept commenting on how great my body was which made me feel a little better.
Senior year of high school, I started becoming part of the sex & body-positive movements on tumblr and began masturbating and also sending ‘nudes’ to people I trusted. Both of these things helped TREMENDOUSLY with how I viewed my vulva. I even had fears like ‘nothing would fit’ in my vagina or I couldn’t orgasm bc of my labia minora. Both proved to be unfounded. I now wore tampons, orgasmed regularly, & felt overall like my pussy was functioning AND awesome, which was great.
I still struggle a little bit with self confidence in that area, but I am getting better each and every day :) It helps that I actually really like how my vulva looks and am becoming more comfortable with my sexuality, now that I am aware I am perfectly normal and healthy. I’m excited to finally be able to explore things with sexual partners, whom I trust, and to be able to fully enjoy my body & vulva.
Oof, sorry that was so long!! I hope I helped some girls out there ♥♥
Love your body because it’s the only one you’ve got !!
P.S. I cried a little while writing this. I feel like I’ve gotten a load off my chest. Thank you so much, Emma ♡
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I suspect a lot of people will have a tear in their eye after reading this. It’s such fantastic news that you are now able to fully appreciate just how wonderful, and beautiful, your vulva is. What a shame that you didn’t confide in your mother sooner. But it’s wonderful that you were brave and did talk to her. Thank you for being brave and opening yourself up here too, and sharing your story. Your story will have a positive impact on someone needing reassurance, and that’s a great thing. Thank you.
Emma
xo

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Email submission: “My 53 year old labia.”
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Thanks so much for sharing - you’ve got a gorgeous vulva.
Emma
xo

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Submission: “Hi, I’m a 35 years old french woman, and I discovered your site and I’m happy because since I was 15 I had complex about my labia. I had to wait until my first boyfriend when I was 24 to understand that it’s normal. It’s cool sharing our experiences. Thank you for this website.”
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I’m glad you know you’re normal. And beautiful! Thanks for sharing your vulva and your growth experience with us all :)
Emma
xo


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Submission: “This is an absolutely wonderful project you have. This is my vagina, and my lovely HUGE lips! I absolutely love them. (though to be honest, I didn’t even know women disliked having large labia until I read about it online a couple of months ago) They’re great to touch, and the fact that both my labia and the skin by my clitoris are really thick unlike others’ membrane-y labia doesn’t bother me in the least, I think those girls are missing out for not having thick labia like mine! Also, I see so many (nearly everyone!) women on here with trimmed/completely bald vaginas. While that’s their preference, I love my red pubic hair as well (consider going natural, ladies?). To all the women out there who don’t like/are struggling to accept their lady parts: THEY’RE YOURS AND NO ONE ELSE’S! That’s much more than you can say about many other things in your life. Own it! Rock it like no one else can, because anyone who is so petty to care that you’re not a plastic die cast of a woman is not worth your time in the first place! :):

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Hey Emma, in my long twenty years of life I’ve had two partners and I had no idea I was “different” until recently… My two boyfriends had never said or indicated to anything. Awww thanks guy! I had no shame taking off my pants, wearing a bathing suit, or dancing around in my undies!
Five month ago I stumbled across porn, I was embarrassed and shocked of my discovery! I was larger and had extra skin. WHAAAT!? It made me doubt myself and the little confidence I had fell out of my vagina and on the the floor.
I wish I could go back to the care free person I was. My boyfriend assures me that it’s not different, it’s hot. NO ONE LOOKS THE SAME DOWN THERE! Even though I still have trouble feeling sexy and beautiful with my pants down.
I can’t believe what a big impact a little “show biz” can do to our minds. Just because those girls have built bodies, boobies that don’t bounce and Labia’s that you can’t see doesn’t mean we have too! (Though wouldn’t mind to have the fit body.) All I’m saying is we can’t be someone else. Might as well be ourselves. Embrace it.
Give it five years and large labia’s will be the in thing! BELIEVE! )
I just wanted to say thank you Emma!

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Submission: “I’ve always felt very self conscious of my long labia minora. This blog has helped me come to terms with it.”
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That’s awesome! First step, coming to terms. Next step, self-confidence. Last step, pussy pride and love. I hope your contribution will massively boost your self-esteem. Thanks for sharing.
Emma
xo












![Email Submission: “I’m 22, and I’ve had issues with my labia for a while. I have a very long left labia minora. It’s just stick-outy and long and stretchy and weird to me. Sometimes it gets in the damn way when I am having sex, even!! Sometimes I wish someone would just snip it off so it wouldn’t be in the way all the time!!As stretchy and flappy as that little weird labia is, it’s kind of grown on me. The skin on it is so long that not all of it is a mucous membrane type of tissue anymore, and so it is very soft and supple and funny to me. I actually love to play with my boyfriend’s scrotum (and not in a sexual way, just in a highly fascinated and bemused way), and it’s nice that I have a weird stretchy flappy bit of skin, too. Really, genitals are all kinda weird but as long as they work and don’t smell bad, who should feel sad about them? <3Anyway, my bigger issue is that my labia majora are long. They are not cute and little like all the porn gals, they are not short like victoria’s secret models (apparently) have. They are noticeable in my underwear at times. They cause me to cameltoe in leggings and yoga pants if I am not careful and strategic with my underwear! I am self conscious of them, and I wish they were smaller. I wanted to kill my boyfriend when he said it was like my “tiny homer simpson mouth.” He doesn’t mean any harm, and I know he’ll kiss it, so I can’t stay too mad, but those words stick. =/I’m deciding to look at my vulva as an orchid, which it definitely resembles! I have my beautiful flower, which accepts the love and penetration of my boyfriend, and that is good enough for me!I’ve included a with/without underwear image. Sorry it’s so tightly focused, but I didn’t want my tattoos to show.I just looked at the “my labia” section of the blog. I think ours look a bit similar! We even both have longer outer lips and a long left lip! I’m just a bit paler. That’s so cute/cool! Thanks for sharing your body with us, and thanks for allowing women to feel positive about themselves!!”_________________‘Really, genitals are all kinda weird but as long as they work and don’t smell bad, who should feel sad about them?’ - that’s going to be the new motto for this site!!! Never could a truer thing be said. It doesn’t mean that they aren’t attractive, and yours certainly are, and I’m not just saying that because you said ours were a bit alike. Not quite like Joey [Friends] and his hand twin, though there’s probably more of a market for pussy twins lol.Your labia are normal and perfect. As annoying as they may be some times, surgery is a really bad idea. Lots of things get in the way sometimes during sex. Knees, elbows etc - and you’re not advocating cutting them off. Just spread your lips apart, make sure you’re properly lubricated, and get on with it :)There’s no such thing as labia like “all the porn gals”. That’s a myth, and I have to say I believed that when I first started this site. I don’t believe that now. Look at sites like some of my favs, such as Met-Art, Hegre-Art, FTV Girls and AbbyWinters and you’ll see vulva of every size and shape. In other words a representative view of the female population - though the first three sites are mainly gorgeous model types, with AbbyWinters showing average everyday amateur girls. All are real girls, just a different aesthetic view.I talk too much when I post submissions, so I’m learning to shut up LOL, especially when someone writes as well as you. Your words, and photos speak for themselves. Just know that your labia are beautiful, normal, very commonplace and yet gorgeously unique. Thanks for sharing. You rock.Emmaxo](http://25.media.tumblr.com/aa0f2528ccb2585bcc51a96a51838d3a/tumblr_mo9kbryrV21rnpceho1_500.jpg)
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![Email Submission: “I’m 22, and I’ve had issues with my labia for a while. I have a very long left labia minora. It’s just stick-outy and long and stretchy and weird to me. Sometimes it gets in the damn way when I am having sex, even!! Sometimes I wish someone would just snip it off so it wouldn’t be in the way all the time!!As stretchy and flappy as that little weird labia is, it’s kind of grown on me. The skin on it is so long that not all of it is a mucous membrane type of tissue anymore, and so it is very soft and supple and funny to me. I actually love to play with my boyfriend’s scrotum (and not in a sexual way, just in a highly fascinated and bemused way), and it’s nice that I have a weird stretchy flappy bit of skin, too. Really, genitals are all kinda weird but as long as they work and don’t smell bad, who should feel sad about them? <3Anyway, my bigger issue is that my labia majora are long. They are not cute and little like all the porn gals, they are not short like victoria’s secret models (apparently) have. They are noticeable in my underwear at times. They cause me to cameltoe in leggings and yoga pants if I am not careful and strategic with my underwear! I am self conscious of them, and I wish they were smaller. I wanted to kill my boyfriend when he said it was like my “tiny homer simpson mouth.” He doesn’t mean any harm, and I know he’ll kiss it, so I can’t stay too mad, but those words stick. =/I’m deciding to look at my vulva as an orchid, which it definitely resembles! I have my beautiful flower, which accepts the love and penetration of my boyfriend, and that is good enough for me!I’ve included a with/without underwear image. Sorry it’s so tightly focused, but I didn’t want my tattoos to show.I just looked at the “my labia” section of the blog. I think ours look a bit similar! We even both have longer outer lips and a long left lip! I’m just a bit paler. That’s so cute/cool! Thanks for sharing your body with us, and thanks for allowing women to feel positive about themselves!!”_________________‘Really, genitals are all kinda weird but as long as they work and don’t smell bad, who should feel sad about them?’ - that’s going to be the new motto for this site!!! Never could a truer thing be said. It doesn’t mean that they aren’t attractive, and yours certainly are, and I’m not just saying that because you said ours were a bit alike. Not quite like Joey [Friends] and his hand twin, though there’s probably more of a market for pussy twins lol.Your labia are normal and perfect. As annoying as they may be some times, surgery is a really bad idea. Lots of things get in the way sometimes during sex. Knees, elbows etc - and you’re not advocating cutting them off. Just spread your lips apart, make sure you’re properly lubricated, and get on with it :)There’s no such thing as labia like “all the porn gals”. That’s a myth, and I have to say I believed that when I first started this site. I don’t believe that now. Look at sites like some of my favs, such as Met-Art, Hegre-Art, FTV Girls and AbbyWinters and you’ll see vulva of every size and shape. In other words a representative view of the female population - though the first three sites are mainly gorgeous model types, with AbbyWinters showing average everyday amateur girls. All are real girls, just a different aesthetic view.I talk too much when I post submissions, so I’m learning to shut up LOL, especially when someone writes as well as you. Your words, and photos speak for themselves. Just know that your labia are beautiful, normal, very commonplace and yet gorgeously unique. Thanks for sharing. You rock.Emmaxo](http://25.media.tumblr.com/418b30221539c9bfba3448af0b6dfe2e/tumblr_mo9kbryrV21rnpceho2_500.jpg)
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![Email Submission: “I’m 22, and I’ve had issues with my labia for a while. I have a very long left labia minora. It’s just stick-outy and long and stretchy and weird to me. Sometimes it gets in the damn way when I am having sex, even!! Sometimes I wish someone would just snip it off so it wouldn’t be in the way all the time!!As stretchy and flappy as that little weird labia is, it’s kind of grown on me. The skin on it is so long that not all of it is a mucous membrane type of tissue anymore, and so it is very soft and supple and funny to me. I actually love to play with my boyfriend’s scrotum (and not in a sexual way, just in a highly fascinated and bemused way), and it’s nice that I have a weird stretchy flappy bit of skin, too. Really, genitals are all kinda weird but as long as they work and don’t smell bad, who should feel sad about them? <3Anyway, my bigger issue is that my labia majora are long. They are not cute and little like all the porn gals, they are not short like victoria’s secret models (apparently) have. They are noticeable in my underwear at times. They cause me to cameltoe in leggings and yoga pants if I am not careful and strategic with my underwear! I am self conscious of them, and I wish they were smaller. I wanted to kill my boyfriend when he said it was like my “tiny homer simpson mouth.” He doesn’t mean any harm, and I know he’ll kiss it, so I can’t stay too mad, but those words stick. =/I’m deciding to look at my vulva as an orchid, which it definitely resembles! I have my beautiful flower, which accepts the love and penetration of my boyfriend, and that is good enough for me!I’ve included a with/without underwear image. Sorry it’s so tightly focused, but I didn’t want my tattoos to show.I just looked at the “my labia” section of the blog. I think ours look a bit similar! We even both have longer outer lips and a long left lip! I’m just a bit paler. That’s so cute/cool! Thanks for sharing your body with us, and thanks for allowing women to feel positive about themselves!!”_________________‘Really, genitals are all kinda weird but as long as they work and don’t smell bad, who should feel sad about them?’ - that’s going to be the new motto for this site!!! Never could a truer thing be said. It doesn’t mean that they aren’t attractive, and yours certainly are, and I’m not just saying that because you said ours were a bit alike. Not quite like Joey [Friends] and his hand twin, though there’s probably more of a market for pussy twins lol.Your labia are normal and perfect. As annoying as they may be some times, surgery is a really bad idea. Lots of things get in the way sometimes during sex. Knees, elbows etc - and you’re not advocating cutting them off. Just spread your lips apart, make sure you’re properly lubricated, and get on with it :)There’s no such thing as labia like “all the porn gals”. That’s a myth, and I have to say I believed that when I first started this site. I don’t believe that now. Look at sites like some of my favs, such as Met-Art, Hegre-Art, FTV Girls and AbbyWinters and you’ll see vulva of every size and shape. In other words a representative view of the female population - though the first three sites are mainly gorgeous model types, with AbbyWinters showing average everyday amateur girls. All are real girls, just a different aesthetic view.I talk too much when I post submissions, so I’m learning to shut up LOL, especially when someone writes as well as you. Your words, and photos speak for themselves. Just know that your labia are beautiful, normal, very commonplace and yet gorgeously unique. Thanks for sharing. You rock.Emmaxo](http://24.media.tumblr.com/064c5c64078f00516b1d34dbbc226270/tumblr_mo9kbryrV21rnpceho3_500.jpg)
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![Email Submission: “I’m 22, and I’ve had issues with my labia for a while. I have a very long left labia minora. It’s just stick-outy and long and stretchy and weird to me. Sometimes it gets in the damn way when I am having sex, even!! Sometimes I wish someone would just snip it off so it wouldn’t be in the way all the time!!As stretchy and flappy as that little weird labia is, it’s kind of grown on me. The skin on it is so long that not all of it is a mucous membrane type of tissue anymore, and so it is very soft and supple and funny to me. I actually love to play with my boyfriend’s scrotum (and not in a sexual way, just in a highly fascinated and bemused way), and it’s nice that I have a weird stretchy flappy bit of skin, too. Really, genitals are all kinda weird but as long as they work and don’t smell bad, who should feel sad about them? <3Anyway, my bigger issue is that my labia majora are long. They are not cute and little like all the porn gals, they are not short like victoria’s secret models (apparently) have. They are noticeable in my underwear at times. They cause me to cameltoe in leggings and yoga pants if I am not careful and strategic with my underwear! I am self conscious of them, and I wish they were smaller. I wanted to kill my boyfriend when he said it was like my “tiny homer simpson mouth.” He doesn’t mean any harm, and I know he’ll kiss it, so I can’t stay too mad, but those words stick. =/I’m deciding to look at my vulva as an orchid, which it definitely resembles! I have my beautiful flower, which accepts the love and penetration of my boyfriend, and that is good enough for me!I’ve included a with/without underwear image. Sorry it’s so tightly focused, but I didn’t want my tattoos to show.I just looked at the “my labia” section of the blog. I think ours look a bit similar! We even both have longer outer lips and a long left lip! I’m just a bit paler. That’s so cute/cool! Thanks for sharing your body with us, and thanks for allowing women to feel positive about themselves!!”_________________‘Really, genitals are all kinda weird but as long as they work and don’t smell bad, who should feel sad about them?’ - that’s going to be the new motto for this site!!! Never could a truer thing be said. It doesn’t mean that they aren’t attractive, and yours certainly are, and I’m not just saying that because you said ours were a bit alike. Not quite like Joey [Friends] and his hand twin, though there’s probably more of a market for pussy twins lol.Your labia are normal and perfect. As annoying as they may be some times, surgery is a really bad idea. Lots of things get in the way sometimes during sex. Knees, elbows etc - and you’re not advocating cutting them off. Just spread your lips apart, make sure you’re properly lubricated, and get on with it :)There’s no such thing as labia like “all the porn gals”. That’s a myth, and I have to say I believed that when I first started this site. I don’t believe that now. Look at sites like some of my favs, such as Met-Art, Hegre-Art, FTV Girls and AbbyWinters and you’ll see vulva of every size and shape. In other words a representative view of the female population - though the first three sites are mainly gorgeous model types, with AbbyWinters showing average everyday amateur girls. All are real girls, just a different aesthetic view.I talk too much when I post submissions, so I’m learning to shut up LOL, especially when someone writes as well as you. Your words, and photos speak for themselves. Just know that your labia are beautiful, normal, very commonplace and yet gorgeously unique. Thanks for sharing. You rock.Emmaxo](http://25.media.tumblr.com/ad29dca57f0b21f8173e9fdfc490d755/tumblr_mo9kbryrV21rnpceho4_500.jpg)
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Submission: “Hey, Emma! Well I finally have the courage to post a picture of my labia. I’m 19 years old and I’ve been SO self-conscious about it for as long as I can remember. I won’t have sex in the light and I refuse to let anyone see it. Your site has helped me out a lot, I’m still insecure but I’m sure one day I’ll get over it. Thank you! :)”
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Hopefully that day will be sooner than you think. Really your labia are delightful. So pretty, as I’m sure anyone who sees the will agree. I’m interested to know why you’re self-conscious about them, and why you think that way. They are larger than some, smaller than others. Perfectly normal and very attractive. Thanks for taking the brave step in contributing here. I hope that this helps you on your journey towards self-acceptance and love for your labia.
Emma
xo

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Email Submission: “Hi Emma :) Finding your site has inspired me to take a look at my own labia. I’m 19 and I’ve never had any sexual contact before, apart from kissing, so I’ve never really thought to pay much attention to the appearance of my genitals.
My inner labia have never “stuck out” (for lack of a better term) of my outer labia (because they are chubby) but taking a closer look, I have an extra fold on one of my inner labia, making it much thicker than the other side. It also seems unusual that my vagina is so “open”, but if I have learned anything from your site it’s that all vulvas are beautiful AND unique. So I’m going to try not to dwell on differences I have.
I hope that I’ll be fortunate enough to have only supportive partners when I reach that stage of my life. It’s unbelievable to me that anyone would taunt a girl because of the appearance of her labia. All women are beautiful and I thank you for making it your mission to help girls believe that. I’ve never “shown off my stuff” before so I’m kind of nervous but excited about it :) “
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What a wonderful contribution to our little place in this growing pussy-pride movement. Your vulva is perfectly normal, and your labia are beautiful. Having an extra fold or two of skin is very common. In fact I have that too, very similar to you, so you’re in good company! It’s just more sensitive skin to play with.
I think it’s largely up to us to make sure our sexual partners treat us with respect and dignity and affection, and frankly if anyone ever says anything bad about you or yours, please do not accept it, condone it, make excuses for it or suffer in silence. Anyone, however hot they are or good in bed or whatever, clearly does not respect you if they were to say that about you. But as with any insult, it can only ever hit its mark if you believe what they are saying is true.
I hope that this site one day will be able to educate all females (and males alike) to the point that if someone says something derogatory about a girl’s vulva, that the obvious response will be, full of confidence and self-worth, to laugh in their faces because they are such ignorant idiots. Your contribution here is helping with that goal, and I hope that you too will have the confidence, knowing you’re spectacularly NORMAL, to be able to embrace your sexuality with that knowledge and power too.
Thanks again for sharing, and I hope you really enjoy being here.
Emma
xo

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Email Submission: “Hello there Emma, I just wanted to say what an inspiration you are! Well, my story since I was a young girl I always knew my southerlies was different and to be frank and cliche’ I absolutely hated them. Mum told me I am this was because I was born prematurely and not fully developed or somewhat. I have never let anyone touch me in fear of rejection or go down on me, I’d prefer to pleasure a divine man than to have him run off in disgust of my pussy.
Anyway I am slowly accepting their thickness and colour although I hate them, it is what it is and besides I have immaculate nerves down there so I am horny all the time and my clit is easy to access.
Oh well, there you have it… What you’re doing is inspiring, thank you!”
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Thanks so much for having the courage to write and for your willingness to share your beautiful vulva and story. let me reassure you that you’re normal, and wow, if those isn’t the prettiest pussy then I don’t know what is! You have no reason to hide that away from anybody! Seriously you’re stunning, and guys will think that too. I have research proof which shows that the vast majority of guys pretty much adore all types of female genitalia and believe me, vulva like yours are very much loved.
That’s great that you’re so sensitive there too. A gynaecologist told me that labia and clit hood stimulation, since it’s all connected to the clitoris, aids in orgasm, and there are a lot of nerve endings in large labia! One thing I’ve also learned is that guys love it when they can turn girls on and make them come (it makes them feel like more of a man and helps their self-esteem), so with you being naturally predisposed to being easily aroused will only create a stronger bond between you and your partners. Nobody will reject you or ever be disgusted by your amazingly beautiful and fascinating vulva.
It’s a pity your mother put such a ridiculous notion in your head. Perhaps when you were a newborn and your vulva were enlarged that was an explanation, but all newborns have enlarged genitals. What you have there is a classic case of family genes. Your mother might not have larger lips and clit hood, but her sisters might. Or her mother does, or your dad’s mother. you’ve inherited a family gift there - it’s just a shame your mother doesn’t understand normal anatomy and was silly enough to make you feel abnormal about what is a completely normal vulva variant.
I really hope that you do start feeling more confident about yourself, and maybe even one day to the point of liking your pussy. After all, it serves you well so far - think of the orgasms ) And trust me, you are really beautiful.
Emma
xo

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Submission: “I’m 22 years old. I first accidentally stumbled across porn at 11 and at that point I noticed I was different. My cousins were all neat and tidy, my sister is neat and tidy and all these women are neat and tidy. I wasn’t and still am not.
From that day I can’t tell you how many times I have looked in the mirror trying to convince myself I look attractive down there, and that its not so bad. I think vulvas are vulvas and we should all love our own and embrace each others but we don’t.
None of my friends that I know have long lips. I’ve seen many in their underwear, in bikinis and not on them have the bulge that do. I feel isolated. No man I have met has said they like them, I have met men who have said they don’t like going down on women and all I would love is for people to stop being so rude and derogatory towards vaginas. I mean its skin…so what? But we do.
I would LOVE to find a man that think what I have is the biggest turn on ever but instead I worry that it will be the biggest turn off. I search google for comforting words from men and women about their good experiences but it doesn’t change things.
I have never received oral and received little foreplay by my choice. No guy has said they didn’t want to but no guy has said they do. It feels like i’m relieving them from an unpleasant chore. I can’t stand the thought of someone down there, I would feel sorry for them because I have a lot of skin which is approximate 2 inches long (when straightened out). Nearly the length of a small penis.
At 18 I went to the doctors to try get a labia plasty on the NHS but I was declined as its cosmetic. 4 year later I am still trying to convince myself I don’t want it. Last year I was so desperate, I had the £500 deposit and asked my dad of all people to borrow £1.5k. He wouldn’t unless I told him what it was for, I couldn’t instead I broke down on the phone. He still doesn’t know to this day but it would surprise me if he didn’t have a good idea.
But anyway….here is me, to share with the world because I am not alone in feeling so much hatred over a little bit of skin.”
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You’re normal. You’re beautiful. You’re perfect. You are not alone. You are just the way you’re supposed to be and there is no need to change a thing. Your vulva is amazing, and I hope that you will soon be able to recognise that as the fact that everyone else who has seen you, or will see you, knows to be true. I so want to give you a hug.
Emma
xo

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My labia, what do you think? My husband loves my large lips and pays them extra special attention.
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I think they’re awesome and beautiful and I’m so glad you contributed here. Thank you.
Emma
xo

![Email Submission: “Hey Emma, I have attached a ‘with knickers’ and ‘without knickers’ photo to help you kick off that idea. Enjoy! “_______________That’s awesome, thanks for helping start this idea off. And oh my you have a delightful pussy. Wow, I had no idea [FYI folks, we kind of know each other lol]. Thanks again for sharing, you’re amazing.Much love,Emmaxo](http://25.media.tumblr.com/b0ca0d3e38fa054aa7164fe06ba75b61/tumblr_mo2ssbe53O1rnpceho1_500.jpg)
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![Email Submission: “Hey Emma, I have attached a ‘with knickers’ and ‘without knickers’ photo to help you kick off that idea. Enjoy! “_______________That’s awesome, thanks for helping start this idea off. And oh my you have a delightful pussy. Wow, I had no idea [FYI folks, we kind of know each other lol]. Thanks again for sharing, you’re amazing.Much love,Emmaxo](http://25.media.tumblr.com/c854fdfc02b8715fcc59f604e4bbb6fd/tumblr_mo2ssbe53O1rnpceho2_500.jpg)
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Email Submission: “Hi Emma! First of all, thanks for the blog, it is very useful. I have very long inner labia and I like it. I noticed it the first time I watched porn. I would compare them with the balls of my cat, who is sterilized LOL, but I wasn’t self conscious. Years later, at 21, I was hooking up with I guy who told me, with all the innocence of the world that I could tell him if I had been a man once. I didn’t react badly, but I can say my insecurities started at that right moment. After analyzing the subject I came to the conclusion that the worst that could happen is that a man talks about my vagina, but it would be the same if the guy talks about my boobs or any other part I consider private, and he would look ridiculous complaining about it. For me it’s just important that it tastes good (normal) because it is supposed to look like a vulva, not a face.”
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OMG some men are ignorant idiots. I’m so glad that you were strong enough to know you’re normal and beautiful, and not to be brought down by that stupid thinking. You’re an inspiration and your vulva are gorgeous too!
Emma
xo

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Email Submission: ” Hi Emma, I send you a pic of my vulva to share with the community. Appreciate to receive comments about my intimate anatomy.”
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Thanks so much for sharing again!
Emma
xo

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Submission: “I found this blog, and decided to cancel the date for my labiaplasty today.
I never thought there was anything wrong with my body until I got into a relationship in college. My partner would make comments about it after sex, and would describe how my vagina looked in front of our friends. I was mortified, and started a downward spiral of self-consciousness. I would wear underwear around my partner all the time - sometimes even during sex, and just move the fabric out of the way for penetration. We broke up after two years, but the shame stayed. I still have a huge problem with letting people go down on me. I still have a huge problem with letting people look at it directly - I’m constantly trying to find sex positions that will let me hide.
I started considering surgery a couple months ago. I booked a consultation, and when the doctor removed the sheet to take a look, he said ‘wow, you have a lot of problems here.’ (He’d initially told me the surgery fee would be $4000, but once he started adding up all my ‘problems’ he’d need to correct, he have me an estimate of $9000 - including reduction of both sets of lips, and clitoral dehooding). I was devastated, but still wanted the surgery. I went ahead and booked a date.
I found the Large Labia Project blog while I was doing some research for my surgery online last night. Looking at all the pictures - I realized I’d never really seen girls who had long labia. The more pictures I looked at, the more I started to think - hey, bigger lips can be kind of sexy. I spent some time taking photos of myself, and decided to send one to your site. Obviously I still have work do - it will take some time to reverse years of hating my vagina, and wishing it looked like the ones I see in porn. But I cancelled my surgery last night. The nurse emailed me this morning encouraging me to come talk to the doctor about my concerns. But I deleted it, and chose to write this email instead.”
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OMG I am so so so glad that you found my site! That’s fantastic news that you’ve cancelled your surgery. Your labia are really stunning and it would be crime against beauty had you gone ahead with it. Your message totally made my day! My week!
And I can’t begin to express how much I detest that money-grubbing fuckwit surgeon and all of his ilk. I am so angry at these vile leeches. And even more angry at that arsehole of an ex boyfriend of yours. What a sad, petty and pathetic little person to only make himself feel good by putting you down and creating your insecurities. I’m staggered that you put up with that for two years though. I hope you’re strong enough now to never put up with emotional abuse like that ever again.
I don’t imagine you’ve gone a full 180 degrees yet, from wanting to have plastic surgery on them, to fully loving them, but you’re on the right track. If there’s anything I can do to help keep you focused on how gorgeous, regular, normal, erotic, attractive and desirable your vulva is, just ask :)
Thank you so much for being this brave in contributing, and for having the courage to stick up for yourself. I’m so proud of you! And your story will change other girl’s lives. I want to give you the biggest hug!
With love,
Emma
xo
So much love
Okay so I’m not going to go on another rant about how much I despise labiaplasty and the Dr’s who instead of telling girls the truth- that every vulva is unique and that labia come in all different shapes, colours, sizes, textures, etc- they instead exploit these poor girls’ insecurities and ignorance about what vulvas can actually look like. I hope that one day when that Dr- who could have done anything with his life, chose to cut off labias and clitoral hoods (ie FGM)- is with a woman who pulls down his trousers she says ‘wow you have a lot of problems here.’ And as for that boyfriend of hers. He’s lucky she was so docile about the whole thing. If he was my lover, God help him. And I also hope NO girl/woman ever puts up with bullying like that from someone who should love and respect you. If he is dumb enough to not know that some girls’ lips protrude and others don’t- that’s his problem. She doesn’t need to entertain his lack of knowledge about women’s genitals, nor his lack of knowledge about how to treat the woman you’re sleeping with. If he is low enough to judge and make fun of a vulva (seriously who the hell does that??!!)- and if he sees ugliness in something so beautiful, then suffice to say he is an immature dick head. And needs to be dumped immediately. Because I don’t need to personally know this lovely lady to know that she deserves better. She deserves to have a MAN that knows the look of genitals are unique to the person- if he doesn’t know about different types of labia, what kind of oral was he giving? Those lips add extra sensations and need to be sucked, nibbled, licked, etc- so instead of insulting them in front of his mates he should have been worshipping them accordingly!
Okay rant over. But seriously. These boys need to be educated- not only about vulva diversity, but how to treat a woman. And girls need to also be educated about what their vulvas can look like. All are beautiful and normal. They also need to know not to put up with- let alone continue sleeping with!- any guy that treats you like crap. If he judges your genitals, body, skin colour, religion, sexuality- whatever it may be. Don’t take his abuse. And above all don’t believe it! Don’t go to a Dr. who is in the business of milking this large scale ignorance about what vulvas can look like and selling a product of ‘designer vagina’. Anyone that shames a girl into thinking she isn’t perfect- and that she needs to cut off her labia to be beautiful and worthy of admiration- deserves to be ridiculed and publicly shamed for such an idiotic and misogynistic train of thought. Tell them all to get fucked, you’re perfect and you know it. Don’t buy the bullshit!!

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Submission: “I was always slightly self-conscious of my vagina due to my large labia. My husband loves the way it looks and I feel confident now. I wish I would have been more self-confident before getting validation from another person, but I’ll take it nonetheless.”
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You’re beautiful! Hey I suppose it doesn’t matter how you get there, so long as you finally do fully appreciate how amazing your vulva is. Your labia are delightful :) Thanks for sharing.
Emma
xo

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Submission: “I found this blog, and decided to cancel the date for my labiaplasty today.
I never thought there was anything wrong with my body until I got into a relationship in college. My partner would make comments about it after sex, and would describe how my vagina looked in front of our friends. I was mortified, and started a downward spiral of self-consciousness. I would wear underwear around my partner all the time - sometimes even during sex, and just move the fabric out of the way for penetration. We broke up after two years, but the shame stayed. I still have a huge problem with letting people go down on me. I still have a huge problem with letting people look at it directly - I’m constantly trying to find sex positions that will let me hide.
I started considering surgery a couple months ago. I booked a consultation, and when the doctor removed the sheet to take a look, he said ‘wow, you have a lot of problems here.’ (He’d initially told me the surgery fee would be $4000, but once he started adding up all my ‘problems’ he’d need to correct, he have me an estimate of $9000 - including reduction of both sets of lips, and clitoral dehooding). I was devastated, but still wanted the surgery. I went ahead and booked a date.
I found the Large Labia Project blog while I was doing some research for my surgery online last night. Looking at all the pictures - I realized I’d never really seen girls who had long labia. The more pictures I looked at, the more I started to think - hey, bigger lips can be kind of sexy. I spent some time taking photos of myself, and decided to send one to your site. Obviously I still have work do - it will take some time to reverse years of hating my vagina, and wishing it looked like the ones I see in porn. But I cancelled my surgery last night. The nurse emailed me this morning encouraging me to come talk to the doctor about my concerns. But I deleted it, and chose to write this email instead.”
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OMG I am so so so glad that you found my site! That’s fantastic news that you’ve cancelled your surgery. Your labia are really stunning and it would be crime against beauty had you gone ahead with it. Your message totally made my day! My week!
And I can’t begin to express how much I detest that money-grubbing fuckwit surgeon and all of his ilk. I am so angry at these vile leeches. And even more angry at that arsehole of an ex boyfriend of yours. What a sad, petty and pathetic little person to only make himself feel good by putting you down and creating your insecurities. I’m staggered that you put up with that for two years though. I hope you’re strong enough now to never put up with emotional abuse like that ever again.
I don’t imagine you’ve gone a full 180 degrees yet, from wanting to have plastic surgery on them, to fully loving them, but you’re on the right track. If there’s anything I can do to help keep you focused on how gorgeous, regular, normal, erotic, attractive and desirable your vulva is, just ask :)
Thank you so much for being this brave in contributing, and for having the courage to stick up for yourself. I’m so proud of you! And your story will change other girl’s lives. I want to give you the biggest hug!
With love,
Emma
xo

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Hey, I’m 19 graduate student. I have been going out with my boyfriend for about 6 months now. We have sex twice a week, yeah he goes down on me, but only when it’s night or dark! I’m too self conscience to let him actually see my pussy in all it’s glory :( help! Mentally making me really depressed!
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There is no reason why your boyfriend wouldn’t adore your gorgeous and very normal labia. He already knows exactly what they are like. He’s felt them and knows that you have lips just like that. What, you think he could possibly go down on you and not know exactly what your lips are like? And presumably he keeps coming back for more. He loves them!
Relationships are built on trust. You need to trust him and know that he loves you for not only who you are, but also because you’ve got a gorgeous pussy. Show him, but tell him you’re self-conscious about it. Open yourself up to him and when you find out that he adores you just as you are, then your relationship, and sex life, will be ever stronger.
Emma
xoxo

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Submission: Thanks for sharing your your vulva!
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Email Submission: “Hello girls, This is my vagina hip hop dancing! Just kidding, it’s just my boyfriend styling it. I like my vulva, I think it’s beautiful. They all are. I like its primitive shape, like a clam shell. If a man can’t appreciate it or says something hurtful about it, he probably has shit for brains. Once you’re naked, please STOP THINKING ABOUT THAT and if you can’t help it, just “trick” yourself, and tell yourself that you’re like goddesses with delicious and gorgeous vaginas… and see what happens. I mean, do not fill your head with negative thoughts because of your insecurities - all you will achieve is avoid to living the experience to the fullest. Kisses and Hugs!”
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Well we’ve never had a dancing pussy here before, so this is a welcome first. It’s great that you and your boyfriend had so much fun playing. I like your positive thinking, and your kind of “fake it ‘til you make it” way of looking at body image. Girls fall into the trap of telling themselves they are ugly / abnormal / undesirable / unlovable / etc / blahhhhh until they start to believe it. It makes sense that the reverse is true. Only this time it is true! So ladies, tell yourselves you’re beautiful until you really do believe it. Oh and thanks for sharing your beautiful, very normal and very attractive vulva. You’re awesome!
Emma
xo

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Email Submission: “Hi Emma, Thanks for your brave journey into the female “taboo” anatomy subject. I am 38 years old and a lesbian. I always felt self-conscious about my labia until I realized that it enhances my partner’s sexual experience. While stimulating for me, the mass is quite arousing for female partners. I am now one with my labia. =) ”
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Thanks so much for contributing, and for your kind words. Wow you do have beautiful labia and it’s no wonder your partner enjoys and loves them. It’s reassuring to know that you’re no longer self-conscious about them, though it’s sad that we often need validation from others before we can appreciate ourselves. But I suppose that’s the nature of insecurities. I don’t consider what I’m doing here to be particularly brave. The real courage is shown by people like you, willing to share themselves, overcome insecurities and help others do the same. So thank you.
Emma
xo

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Here is a pic of my labia. I have always enjoyed them. I wouldn’t change anything about them. I wish more of you girls felt the same way.
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I wish they did too, and by seeing your beautiful labia, and your confident pride in your pussy, you will help change attitudes. Thank you!
Emma
xo

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![Email Submission: [This is a follow up submission from a contributor in early May 13 - Emma]“Hi Emma! Basically, the insecurities for my labia started when I was only ten years old (so the misconception of women with big labias being sluts is obviously false). Growing up, I didn’t think there was something wrong with me. But then one day, my aunt walked in on me changing. She saw my labia and said “Hm, maybe you should talk to your mom about getting those cut off” (and here goes my 10 year old innocence saying “Why??”) that’s when I started getting obsessed with how they look.By thirteen, I thought those lips were “Dead”. Hell, I thought “Cut Off” from my aunt as actually meaning take scissors and cut them off. So I decided to pinch them with my nails, (insert 50 billion swear words here) and that hurt, so I knew I couldn’t easily get rid of them.It was only when I was 16 that I started getting sexually active. And unfortunately from age 16 - 18 was when I heard all the nasty comments. I’ve had 4 guys that I fooled around with and 2 guys that I had actual penetration. The first time I let someone in, he mentioned they look like “Dumbo Ears”. We laughed about it. But it really actually hurt. Other guys have said, “Uhm. Wow. They’re kinda… Long” (obviously * roll eyes*). Finally, I felt like getting surgery. For many nights I’ve cried over the sad things men have said.Then, this one guy gave me a boost. I told him about my “Problem” and thankfully he said : (his own words)‘First and foremost, any guy that can’t handle the fact that you have longer labia doesn’t deserve to see, touch, feel, taste, suck, or play with those beautiful labia. What one guy says that isn’t mature enough to understand that not every vagina looks the exact same shouldn’t effect the way you let someone else in. I know my words won’t help because we all have insecurities that a few words in a paragraph won’t cure, but there are men out there that either won’t care what your pussy looks like or love what it looks like because it’s yours. They want you, not your vagina. Your vagina is the added bonus that very few men have had the pleasure to see let alone be inside.Unfortunately there are people, especially young men who’ve only seen one or two vagina’s before in person and tons and tons in porn, won’t know what to do and might not know that what you have are beautiful pussy lips. Because of lack of education or exploration, these guys need to have their hand held through the process. So you need to tell them ahead of time that you are insecure with the way your vagina looks because you have larger labia. If they know ahead of time, there will be less assumptions and probably a lot more pleasure. If they can’t handle it, then that gives them an out right then and there and you don’t have to proceed.I can’t tell you that a labiaplasty is good or bad. Some women have had them and it’s changed their sex life because of confidence. But with time, you will become more confident even without the labiaplasty.I don’t know what your ex is saying about you, but you can’t let it effect you or you need to stand up to him and talk to him about it, and why what he is saying isn’t okay. He doesn’t have the right to effect your confidence like he is. Be proud of your beautiful vagina, his words are only that, words. If you don’t listen to them, or know that his opinion doesn’t matter, then you will be in a better place.’That’s when I decided to look at my labias, and REALLY look at them. How far they stretched. Are they wrinkly? What colour was on the inside. They didn’t cause discomfort, it was all psychological. Those lips are mine.So here I am today, a few words from a guy helped me see that we all are different. Plus, I feel like I have the most intense orgasms ever. Just lip and clit stimulation makes me go insanely wild. I would say during sex, I orgasm 2-3 times because it’s easily attainable. I feel like if I cut the lips, I’m going to miss out on some of the best sex of my life.That’s basically my long story! For me, it isn’t discomfort. It was what society and men wanted me to do, wanted me to look like. I guess it was mean of me to say men have only said negative things, because even my loving aunt was poorly educated on the different labia sizes and different types of vulvas. It’s crazy, because I challenge most girls to forget the media, cosmo, porn, everything. Would they love their labia? It’s a long process to answer that question, but for me, my answer is yes!”____________Thanks so much for writing again, sharing your pain and your journey to acceptance and love for your vulva. Personally I feel that I can appreciate your prior anguish so much better, and I would love to give you a hug right about now. A virtual one will have to do. Seeing how one idiotic, ignorant and insensitive event led to another will, I am sure, resonate with a good many of the girls and women who read it. What you’ve written here will be really empowering to a lot of people, and I am so glad that you have taken the time to tell more of your story and how you’ve grown. Talk about hitting the jackpot - beautiful, smart, caring and the most gorgeous of vulva ever! :)That letter from your boyfriend sure had a profound impact on you, and he deserves a hug too. He’s probably right about educating guys, especially younger guys, with limited exposure to what real women actually look like. As much as it’s not our responsibility to cater for other people’s ignorance, in the end it’s in our best interests to act as educators. And being honest in any relationship, especially a sexual one, is always a very good idea. It still doesn’t mean you’re not being honest with a total arsehole, but with genuine guys being able to talk about insecurities up front will build even more intimacy. As I mentioned to you, you should be so proud of yourself for doing this, but also for embracing your beautiful, perfect vulva. That photo, shaped liked a diamond, is the best visual analogy, because your vulva are like the most precious and most desired of all gemstones. Perfect and sparkling. With much love,Emmaxo](http://25.media.tumblr.com/76472a71366db2ca5857fb25baef94c0/tumblr_mnxtjx81iE1rnpceho1_500.jpg)
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![Email Submission: [This is a follow up submission from a contributor in early May 13 - Emma]“Hi Emma! Basically, the insecurities for my labia started when I was only ten years old (so the misconception of women with big labias being sluts is obviously false). Growing up, I didn’t think there was something wrong with me. But then one day, my aunt walked in on me changing. She saw my labia and said “Hm, maybe you should talk to your mom about getting those cut off” (and here goes my 10 year old innocence saying “Why??”) that’s when I started getting obsessed with how they look.By thirteen, I thought those lips were “Dead”. Hell, I thought “Cut Off” from my aunt as actually meaning take scissors and cut them off. So I decided to pinch them with my nails, (insert 50 billion swear words here) and that hurt, so I knew I couldn’t easily get rid of them.It was only when I was 16 that I started getting sexually active. And unfortunately from age 16 - 18 was when I heard all the nasty comments. I’ve had 4 guys that I fooled around with and 2 guys that I had actual penetration. The first time I let someone in, he mentioned they look like “Dumbo Ears”. We laughed about it. But it really actually hurt. Other guys have said, “Uhm. Wow. They’re kinda… Long” (obviously * roll eyes*). Finally, I felt like getting surgery. For many nights I’ve cried over the sad things men have said.Then, this one guy gave me a boost. I told him about my “Problem” and thankfully he said : (his own words)‘First and foremost, any guy that can’t handle the fact that you have longer labia doesn’t deserve to see, touch, feel, taste, suck, or play with those beautiful labia. What one guy says that isn’t mature enough to understand that not every vagina looks the exact same shouldn’t effect the way you let someone else in. I know my words won’t help because we all have insecurities that a few words in a paragraph won’t cure, but there are men out there that either won’t care what your pussy looks like or love what it looks like because it’s yours. They want you, not your vagina. Your vagina is the added bonus that very few men have had the pleasure to see let alone be inside.Unfortunately there are people, especially young men who’ve only seen one or two vagina’s before in person and tons and tons in porn, won’t know what to do and might not know that what you have are beautiful pussy lips. Because of lack of education or exploration, these guys need to have their hand held through the process. So you need to tell them ahead of time that you are insecure with the way your vagina looks because you have larger labia. If they know ahead of time, there will be less assumptions and probably a lot more pleasure. If they can’t handle it, then that gives them an out right then and there and you don’t have to proceed.I can’t tell you that a labiaplasty is good or bad. Some women have had them and it’s changed their sex life because of confidence. But with time, you will become more confident even without the labiaplasty.I don’t know what your ex is saying about you, but you can’t let it effect you or you need to stand up to him and talk to him about it, and why what he is saying isn’t okay. He doesn’t have the right to effect your confidence like he is. Be proud of your beautiful vagina, his words are only that, words. If you don’t listen to them, or know that his opinion doesn’t matter, then you will be in a better place.’That’s when I decided to look at my labias, and REALLY look at them. How far they stretched. Are they wrinkly? What colour was on the inside. They didn’t cause discomfort, it was all psychological. Those lips are mine.So here I am today, a few words from a guy helped me see that we all are different. Plus, I feel like I have the most intense orgasms ever. Just lip and clit stimulation makes me go insanely wild. I would say during sex, I orgasm 2-3 times because it’s easily attainable. I feel like if I cut the lips, I’m going to miss out on some of the best sex of my life.That’s basically my long story! For me, it isn’t discomfort. It was what society and men wanted me to do, wanted me to look like. I guess it was mean of me to say men have only said negative things, because even my loving aunt was poorly educated on the different labia sizes and different types of vulvas. It’s crazy, because I challenge most girls to forget the media, cosmo, porn, everything. Would they love their labia? It’s a long process to answer that question, but for me, my answer is yes!”____________Thanks so much for writing again, sharing your pain and your journey to acceptance and love for your vulva. Personally I feel that I can appreciate your prior anguish so much better, and I would love to give you a hug right about now. A virtual one will have to do. Seeing how one idiotic, ignorant and insensitive event led to another will, I am sure, resonate with a good many of the girls and women who read it. What you’ve written here will be really empowering to a lot of people, and I am so glad that you have taken the time to tell more of your story and how you’ve grown. Talk about hitting the jackpot - beautiful, smart, caring and the most gorgeous of vulva ever! :)That letter from your boyfriend sure had a profound impact on you, and he deserves a hug too. He’s probably right about educating guys, especially younger guys, with limited exposure to what real women actually look like. As much as it’s not our responsibility to cater for other people’s ignorance, in the end it’s in our best interests to act as educators. And being honest in any relationship, especially a sexual one, is always a very good idea. It still doesn’t mean you’re not being honest with a total arsehole, but with genuine guys being able to talk about insecurities up front will build even more intimacy. As I mentioned to you, you should be so proud of yourself for doing this, but also for embracing your beautiful, perfect vulva. That photo, shaped liked a diamond, is the best visual analogy, because your vulva are like the most precious and most desired of all gemstones. Perfect and sparkling. With much love,Emmaxo](http://25.media.tumblr.com/1fe762af193ecc865711039837269311/tumblr_mnxtjx81iE1rnpceho2_500.jpg)
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Email Submission: “More angles and more pics for the website to help women feel great :) I’m slowly starting to enjoy my visible inner labia - I’m thinking its pretty darn sexy too!”
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Thanks so much for contributing again. It’s so reassuring to hear you’re discovering just how wonderful your labia are. And of course I want your beautiful 10B breasts on www.ourbreasts.tumblr.com again as well, so I may need to re-post this. I still can’t believe that your figure belongs to a mother of two! Thank you for sharing your journey of acceptance and pussy pride, and for your willingness to help others along their journeys too. You rock!
Much love,
Emma xo

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I’m 40 yo. I do like my pussy and my asymmetric lips. Congratulations for your blog.
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I like them too! Thanks for sharing your beautiful vulva!
Emma
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Email Submission: “I used to feel so bad about my labia, often thought about surgery. Not anymore. There are men out there who love labia of every shape, color, and taste. Love yourselves, ladies!!”
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Thank goodness. Surgery? That’s crazy! Thanks so much for sharing and for helping other women feel good about themselves.
Emma
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Email Submission: “Hi Emma, this is my vulva. I also sent you a pic a while back for your breast blog. I was concerned with asymmetry and was considering breast implants. Anyways, as you can see my labia are huge and very asymmetrical. I don’t like them at all. Which is too bad, because I actually like LL, just not mine. I’m sending you this in hopes of making peace with my body. My body has been through a lot - a suicide attempt, severe cutting, and an eating disorder, which I still have. I can’t help but want to fix everything I find wrong with my body, whether it be my nose, skin, breasts, labia, whatever. My body is imperfect, but it is mine, and I hope to one day accept that. I hope having this on your blog will help my self-esteem as well as other girls’. Thanks for all you have done!! XOXO”
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Thanks for sharing. I can’t imagine what it must be like to have been through the things you have, but know that you’re welcome here and you’re truly beautiful. Your labia, by the way, aren’t huge, they are large, but not huge, Certainly nothing out of the ordinary. They are very normal. And also very attractive if I may say. I’m not the only one who will think that, I can guarantee it. I really applaud your courage in contributing here, both to empower yourself and claw back some of the self-esteem you’ve lost over the years. But selflessly also to help other girls through your story and in sharing your very beautiful vulva. You’re amazing, and I wish you the best. I hope you overcome your demons soon. If I can help in any way let me know.
Emma
xo

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Submission: “At age 23, this is my vagina. I never gave much thought to what ‘type’ of vagina I have. It’s simply “my pussy” and I’m more than okay with it. In fact, I kinda love it. When I stumbled upon this blog though, I realized that my labia were similar to some of the pictures I was seeing.
As a “bigger” woman my pubic mound has always been a bit more fleshy. It hides my clit and upper part of my labia. My labia are a bit uneven. The left side is full at the top, almost surrounding my clit and tapers off towards my vaginal opening. The right side is the exact opposite. Sometimes they stick out a bit which makes wearing thongs and lace panties more annoying than fashionable. I go commando as often as possible.
I’ve been lucky enough to be with very loving and accepting men. Adults who didn’t get their sexual expectations solely from watching pornos and reading Playboy. Being with a guy who loved me as a whole and also loved my pussy was a great ego boost. I’ve never doubted that (at least in this area) I’m attractive and can please my partner).
So, yeah. This is my vagina. Puffy mound, uneven labia, and semi-hidden clit. I love it!”
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Thanks so much for sharing your beautiful vulva, (and your breasts ourbreasts), along with your empowering words. You’re brilliant, and helping others appreciate their own bodies. You rock.
Emma
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Email Submission: “Hi Emma, This is my beautiful 50 year old pussy and I love it. Her name is Maya.”
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Well hello, and thank you for introducing us all to Maya. Your vulva are very beautiful. By the way I hope I look that good at 50! Thanks for sharing.
Emma
xo

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Email Submission: “I never really liked my labia growing up. I remember the first time I had never questioned them, I was in the bathroom with a friend around the age of 8. We were putting on bathing suits and I remember looking down at her. I never thought that there might be something wrong or different with her hidden labia, but I instantly thought that it was mine that was wrong.
I went out of my way to not flaunt them for a long time. I didn’t want anyone to see them because I just didn’t like them. Over the years, I became more confident and more sex positive. I met a great guy. From the start we were incredibly open with each other. Before he even saw my vagina, he mentioned that he loved large inner labia. I secretly smiled inside. My labia had been embraced and I’ve never felt more comfortable with my vagina. I really like what you’re doing here, good stuff.”
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Thank you so much for bravely contributing. I know it’s a hard thing to do. But your story and beautiful vulva are very welcome here, and your contribution will be helping other girls who have been through similar insecurities in their teens and adolescence, and frankly well into their adulthood too. It’s funny how you immediately thought there was a problem with you, as opposed to a problem with her. In reality there wasn’t a problem with either of you. We’re programmed, in a way, to seek out similarities without appreciating or understanding the differences and diversity that exists among us. I’m glad, today, that you don’t still think the way you did when you were eight! And thanks again for contributing.
Emma
xo

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Email Submission: “I have never felt self-conscious about my labias and never really thought some girls were. I remember travelling few years ago with my girl friends and seeing them naked, but I just thought, well of course our vaginas are different, like she is blonde and I am dark, she’s thinner and I have all possible curves you could have. Too much hips, boobs, bottom: that’s what I have always been self-conscious about. But I have recently started to like myself, to feel sexy and to accept being looked that way. So here I am, participating to this labia project, hoping it can help a few of you girls, even if mine aren’t large. We all have to deal with our bodies and that’s what makes us unique and beautiful. I am 20 years old, curvy and feeling sexy, hope you can feel the same, xo.”
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Thanks for your supportive and body positive message. Lots of girls, with big labia, and small labia, and every shape and size, suffer from insecurities about them. Your message will help girls all over, so thank you for sharing!
Emma
xo

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Email Submission: “Hi, I’m 19 and my large clitoral hood and labia make me feel like I have a penis.”
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Nope, that’s like no penis I’ve ever seen. Just looks like a perfectly normal and very attractive vulva to me.
Emma
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