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Everything has beauty, but not everyone sees it: Confucius This blog is all about labia. It is a body-positive blog that aims to show that vulvas and labia of any size, shape, texture and coloration are normal and beautiful. It provides support for those who feel insecure, self-conscious, victimised or vilified about their labia. This blog is inclusive, and all people with labia are welcome, regardless of race, age, sexual preference or gender. Please respect contributors by not reblogging any posts. If you reblog photo submissions you will be blocked. Got a question? Please read the FAQ NOTE: This blog shows photos depicting detailed genital nudity in a non-sexual setting, and contains written content with adult themes. Submissions are encouraged, but photos showing nudity are only allowed from people 18+ please. Visit My Other Body Positive Blog WARNING PORN BLOGS: Porn blogs are not tolerated and will be blocked. Do not follow this blog and do not reblog any posts . You do not have permission to do so. You will be in breach of copyright and Tumblr standards and you will be reported. (function(i,s,o,g,r,a,m){i['GoogleAnalyticsObject']=r;i[r]=i[r]||function(){ (i[r].q=i[r].q||[]).push(arguments)},i[r].l=1*new Date();a=s.createElement(o), m=s.getElementsByTagName(o)[0];a.async=1;a.src=g;m.parentNode.insertBefore(a,m) })(window,document,'script','//','ga'); ga('create', 'UA-55420132-1', 'auto'); ga('send', 'pageview'); - Large Labia Project (@largelabiaproject)
Do not reblog submission im 22 years old and i @largelabiaproject

DO NOT REBLOG - Submission: I’m 22 years old and I began to notice my labia when I was about 11 or 12. I never thought much about it until I watched porn and saw that many of the girls had small labia.

When I was 15 I lost my virginity to my first boyfriend. We only dated for about a month and only had sex one time. After we broke up he told our mutual friends that I didn’t have a “pretty” pussy. That made me even more self-conscious. I’ve always been shy to have guys go down on me for the first time because I’m afraid they’ll think my labia are ugly. Though none of my sexual partners have had any bad opinions about my labia, except the first one.

Over the years I’ve become more comfortable with my labia and they’re starting to grow on me. :)

Do not reblog submission large labia ladies @largelabiaproject

DO NOT REBLOG - Submission:  Large labia ladies, let your lips hang out and be proud. ✨ 
I’m starting to really love my labia and I’m so happy because of that.

Thank you everyone for the encouragement and bravery of posting and submitting past your fears. You’re all amazing.

Thank you, Emma for all you do. You’re a treasure.

Do not reblog submission my pussy again i hate @largelabiaproject

DO NOT REBLOG - Submission: My pussy again. I hate how it looks.  20F

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DO NOT REBLOG - Submission:  Here is a photo of my vulva. To many this will look pretty damn normal but to me it’s taken a lot of getting over the size of my labia. For some this may be a normal-sized labia to look at, for others like myself, they’ll look at it in comparison to what others have or what is seen in porn and think that my lips are huge. 

This coupled with a few things, like when an ex called it disgusting and asked whether I’d think of surgery, to then looking at surgery before-and-after pictures and realizing the before pictures looked like mine, means I’m not comfortable with showing it as often as I do other parts of myself.

Why I’m posting is to get over the fact I don’t have a ‘designer vagina’ but that doesn’t mean my vulva is ugly to look at. Also the myths about big lips being unhygienic is a lie, as well as it meaning you have a loose vagina - I’m tiny as fuck in there! 

So here it is. It’s not conventionally pretty or neat, but this is how it’s going to stay.

Do not reblog submission hi emma these are @largelabiaproject

DO NOT REBLOG - Submission:  Hi Emma, these are my labia. I’m 19 years old & I’ve hated them ever since I was about 12 years old. 

I remember being young (11 & younger) & having small labia. I started masturbating when I was 12 years old, and that is when I noticed my labia getting larger. I thought it happened because of the way I would masturbate but I later realized that’s just my anatomy.

I lost my virginity right before I turned 17 and I’ve had 5 sexual partners, none of them ever made a comment about how my vulva looks. I’m not really “ashamed” of it or “embarrassed” by it. I just don’t like it. I asked my boyfriend (who has only had 2 other sexual partners) what he thought of it when he saw it for the first time & he just said he never saw a vulva like mine. I told him that I don’t like it & was considering labiaplasty, but he’s all for being natural. So he tries to talk me out of it. He told me that they’re the sexiest lips he’s ever seen lol which actually made me tear up because it made me so grateful that there’s somebody that loves everything about me no matter how much I hate it.

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DO NOT REBLOG - Submission:  26. Not proud. Considering surgery.

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DO NOT REBLOG - Submission:  Ok so there it is… I’m 33 and I’ve had two children, my first being just over 10lbs. Since having my first I’ve been very self-conscious of my vulva, more so my perineal area. I used to have that separation, it was smooth not so fleshy. Now it’s like there’s no separation between my vagina and my anus. I hate it. My husband has no idea what I’m talking about of course. 

And I also dislike my vaginal opening, it’s like I have a tiny pink tongue that slightly sticks out. I’ve searched and searched for another vagina that looks even a little like mine but haven’t come across any. Am I normal? Am I just stretched out? Or was I stitched up wrong? I can’t possibly be the only woman with this concern.

I couldn’t possibly comment on what your vulva used to look like, or what may have happened if you had tearing or an episiotomy needing stitches. Sometimes labia and vulvas do take on a different appearance after childbirth, and with significant trauma during childbirth it’s not unreasonable to think your vulva could end up changed. If you were stitched, perhaps it resulted in scarring (especially if you have keloid scarring). I know you wish for how your perineum used to look, but it looks normal, natural, fascinating, intricate and beautiful right now. I hope that in time you can see that too, and know that any changes your body has undergone are a mark of strength and honour, for having brought a beautiful baby into the world.

Your vaginal corona (hymen) would also have undergone substantial trauma during childbirth. Hymens can be smooth or lumpy/bumpy or ragged looking. I’m guessing that yours changed when giving birth, and the little tongue is just a remnant part of your hymen. Try not to let it worry you, it’s not abnormal and hymens often look like that, regardless of having had a baby.

I hope you can learn to love your vulva (again?) and that being part of this project will help give you the confidence boost you deserve.


Do not reblog submission hi emma thanks so @largelabiaproject

DO NOT REBLOG - Submission: Hi Emma, thanks so much for your site! Attached are some photos as a submission. 

I’ve always felt self-conscious of my labia - the majora seems small but the minora seem huge and hang out all the time. Sometimes they get caught in my underwear or pants and feel uncomfortable. I have to tuck them inside when I wear a bathing suit to not feel like they will hang out visibly. I’ve had vague desires to do a labiaplasty some day, but I’m too broke and lazy and probably couldn’t really be bothered. I have very thick, curly hair (everywhere) and get in-growns all the time, which leave little scars. Since I’ve had a baby I have major stretch marks, skin tags and discoloration, and am very self-conscious about the skin surrounding my vulva. 

I just found this site today and already feel better! I’m 35.

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DO NOT REBLOG - Submission: Some of the only pictures I have of my labia, because I’ve always been so shameful of myself since I was about 15. I am so incredibly self-conscious because it’s so big and bulky. None of my recent sex partners in the past year have made me feel funny but, it still haunts me.

Do not reblog submission emma i really respect @largelabiaproject

DO NOT REBLOG - Submission: Emma, I really respect your blog and I like to contribute. In recent years I have really liked my labia and large clitoris.

Do not reblog submission hello emma im @largelabiaproject

DO NOT REBLOG - Submission: Hello Emma! I’m eighteen years old. In the past I used to feel insecure about my labia. When I was around thirteen I started watching a lot of porn to see if my body looked like the women in the films. Of course, it made me feel alien because they mostly had small labia. I also heard the false statement that a large labia means you’re loose, but I learned that that is not true and I found websites like yours that showed me how normal and beautiful it is to be large. 

I love my labia now, and so does my girlfriend :) 

And I’ve always liked my pubic hair too, no matter how many of my friends said I should feel otherwise :)

I wanted to share my pictures because I love your blog. It’s so important for nudity to be shown in a non sexual setting. It’s so nice to be able to walk around naked without having to feel “sexy”. It makes me feel confident to be naked. 

Do not reblog submission im 29 and the proud @largelabiaproject

DO NOT REBLOG - Submission:  I’m 29 and the proud owner of one long labium. :] I wasn’t sure what to think of it when I was younger, but I was don’t recall being ashamed of it.  I sometimes call it an extra “tongue.”  Hurray, asymmetry!

Do not reblog submission hi emma im a 19 year @largelabiaproject

DO NOT REBLOG - Submission: Hi Emma, I’m a 19 year old woman and I’ve never really had a big problem with my labia - despite their asymmetry. I’ve always thought that “a vulva is nothing more nor nothing less than a vulva”.

Of course I have compared myself to others when I was younger, but I was never ashamed. Vulvas are beautiful in all shapes and sizes - sometimes they can smell weird or vaginas can produce a lot of discharge or be very very hairy, or maybe they’re all thin-haired and you are not able to grow a big bush, or hang a lil low or be a lil wrinkly - either way they’re still nothing to be ashamed of! 

That’s why I’m so thankful for this blog. Every time a see a person submit to this blog, I get so happy because I think it’s so brave and you’re all so beautiful down there haha ❤️

Thank you Emma, for all your hard work. Hope you’re having a nice day today.

Do not reblog submission im 18 years old and @largelabiaproject

DO NOT REBLOG - Submission:  I’m 18 years old and ever since I was around 14-15 years old I’ve been insecure about my vagina. I just feel like it’s so ugly compared to so many other women. I’ve heard from my partner that he likes the appearance of my vagina but I just can’t help but think he’s lying. There was this guy I was in love with for years before my new partner and I recently found out that he is scared to have a partner with a vagina like mine. Although my feelings for him are no longer existent, it makes me feel like all guys are scared to encounter a vagina like mine and it really worries me for the future. I wish I could love my vagina but I just haven’t found a way yet. I love your blog and everything you do!

Do not reblog submission hi emma thank you so @largelabiaproject

DO NOT REBLOG - Submission: Hi Emma, Thank you so much for your website, which has helped me a great deal to overcome insecurities about my lady parts. You are doing invaluable work!

I am a 44 year old mother of two. My first child was born fourteen years ago, with a head circumference in the 90th percentile and his hand up next to his head - ouch! I am quite small and slight, so this was a big head for me to get out. I tore very messily and was left with a flap of skin on my perineum that caught on my clothes and was hard to keep clean. But I was advised to wait until I finished having children before getting it repaired. Six years later my breech-baby was delivered by C-section. Another six years after that (two years ago now), I had a hysterectomy, and requested that my perineum be repaired at the same time - it is not perfect but so much better than it was!

I have often wished that I had my labia trimmed at the same time, as I think they are large and not very attractive. They can also be uncomfortable when I wear jeans and sports leggings. I am feeling particularly worried about my body at the moment as I am separating from my husband of seventeen years. I am concerned that new sexual partners will not find my old and battered vulva attractive. I hope not, as having a full and active sexual life is very important to me.

However, I am feeling so much better about things after reading your website; I am liking myself more and more. It was empowering (if technically awkward) taking these photos. I hope that if we all are open about how we really look there will be no more shame around our beautiful lady flowers and no more cosmetic surgeons paying for their beachside mansions by cutting parts of our sexuality off. I dream that when my daughter is a young woman, everybody knows what real vulvas look like, and that my son grows up to love and appreciate what is real.

Many thanks, and much love to all the inspiring women who have contributed.

Do no reblog submission hi emma i am an 18 @largelabiaproject

DO NO REBLOG - Submission: Hi Emma! I am an 18 year old virgin and I have always been self conscious of my labia. I am one to criticize my own body harshly so I assumed that my labia weren’t actually that “bad” and I was just being over-dramatic.

I was seeing this guy my junior year in high school and one night our make out sesh started to get very intense. He started to go down on me (he knew I was a virgin and that this would be my first time having any guy down there) and after about a minute of him doing this he looked up at me and said “are you actually a virgin?” I told him yes, and asked why he was wondering. He said “no reason” and continued on. After that night I told him it was moving too fast for me and we broke up. I don’t know if he thought I wasn’t a virgin because of the size of my labia but that is always what I assumed it was.

Ever since then I have been saving up for a labiaplasty. 

Until I came across your blog. You truly have changed my outlook on my body, not just my labia. So I decided to make a submission to help other girls out there realize how beautiful their bodies are.

Do not reblog submission hi emma thank you @largelabiaproject

DO NOT REBLOG - Submission:  Hi Emma, Thank you so much for creating this blog!  I am a 34 year old single woman, no kids, and I am proud to submit my photos today.

I love my vulva now, but I haven’t always. As a survivor of childhood sexual abuse, I avoided looking at, touching, or even thinking about my vulva for quite a long time after puberty. It just felt dirty and horrible to me, as if everything about it - shape, size, color, hair, scent - was an effect of having been violated. It went on that way until I discovered a few feminist friends and writings in college, and began verrrryyy slowly to tolerate and then accept it as it was. Therapy also was invaluable! My acceptance process is still ongoing, and your blog helps so much. Every single brave woman who shares herself here is so beautiful. 

My inner labia are somewhat dark and very uneven, and I think that adds to their unique character. They sort of naturally tuck themselves during daily (clothed) life, but I love how they unfurl like flower petals when spread open. As if they are proud to be seen and take up space, rather than be “cleaned up”/cut/made to go away or be childlike again.

Also I want to note that a big part of my acceptance process was to appreciate not just how my vulva looks, but how it feels too. My vulva exists for me and my pleasure/my identity. It’s not an object to be judged and found wanting or not, but an integral part of me. And I wouldn’t have her any other way.

I know this is long - but one final note. You’ll see in one of my pictures that I have a significant size hole in one side of my hymenal ring. I don’t think this was caused by the abuse, as it wasn’t violent. Have you ever heard of this condition before, or know what might have caused it? It doesn’t cause me any pain, I am just very curious about it.

Thanks again!

Thanks so much for your submission, and your body-positivity. I’m so sorry to hear about your sad past, but it’s heartening to know that you’re overcoming that and are now so positive about your beautiful vulva.

I’m not sure if there’s anything specific that would cause your hymen (also called “vaginal corona”) to have a hole like that, other than to say that they are all different, some with more flesh and some with practically nothing at all. They can stretch or even effectively wear away, so I’d say that yours has just “eroded” in that interesting way. If it doesn’t bother you, then I wouldn’t worry about it.

Thanks again for your contribution, and words of wisdom.


Do not reblog submission thank you so much @largelabiaproject

DO NOT REBLOG - Submission:  Thank you so much for your blog. Seeing so many beautiful vulvas side by side gives me a feeling of solidarity and sisterhood. I’ve always been a little self conscious about my lady parts and worried that my labia majora are too puffy or that the spongy inside of my vagina sticks out too much. I’m proud to stand with all the other ladies who have submitted to this blog to show that vulvas are beautiful! I am 25, by the way.

Do not reblog submission 18 years old and never @largelabiaproject

DO NOT REBLOG - Submission: 18 years old and never been a huge fan of shaving, oh well lol. I never realized there were so many people who thought badly about their labias and everything else going on down there. But here’s my lady! I’ve always felt weird about my vulva but I’m getting better at accepting my body and how it looks! :)

Do not reblog submission im 19 from @largelabiaproject

DO NOT REBLOG - Submission: I’m 19, from Australia. These are the first photos I’ve taken of my vulva as I’ve always been too self-conscious of it. 

I was never aware it was “different” until I was 16/17 and I started to become sexually active. My first boyfriend never made a comment on it and it wasn’t until I started looking at photos in the media that I became worried. 

My second sexual partner had slept with many more people than I and was very interested in the look and shape of my labia and made the comment that he had never seen one like mine ever before. He also asked if it was because of the constant sex I had with my previous partner. I was taken back but he only had good intentions at heart and said that it was only what he heard other people tell him. I’m still self-conscious but speaking openly about it with someone who loves me and my body and respects that this is how I am, is helping me to love myself. 

Thank you am for such a wonderful blog, it’s empowering women everywhere!

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DO NOT REBLOG - Submission: So this is my labia…..I’ve been so insecure about it for such a long time. I just hate how much it sticks out and almost curls round! I can’t get my vagina out in front of any boy, I dread to know what they are thinking. I just want to love my body and be comfortable with my vagina.

Do not reblog submission i am 19 years old @largelabiaproject

DO NOT REBLOG - Submission: I am 19 years old, and I’ve always felt conflicted about my labia. I am learning to love it with the help of the LargeLabiaProject.

Do not reblog submission hi i am submitting @largelabiaproject

DO NOT REBLOG - Submission: Hi! I am submitting because I think this a way to let my fears go away. I rather have small labia minora but I am self-conscious about my labia majora, I think it is to fat. I feel anxious when having sex and not very confident to let my man see and eat my pussy. I am 45 yo and still insecure.

Do not reblog submission i used to be so @largelabiaproject

DO NOT REBLOG - Submission: I used to be so self-conscious and worried about how my labia were incredibly noticeable through my underwear. 

Changing in the locker rooms or around family even was an embarrassment. I never noticed anyone else having this issue around me. I considered it a birth defect from being born premature, or I just wasn’t “developed” right. I battled this theory until I discovered this blog. 

I know now I’m not alone, and that my labia are not a curse, but an absolute blessing! 💕 I am in love with them and even though I still have my days of negative thoughts, they get drowned out by the positive I am creating for myself. 

Thank you Emma, for all you do and for continuing this project for all of us and our beautiful large labia!

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DO NOT REBLOG - Submission: My contribution. Thanks for this awesome space. Hugs :)

My work is about the relationship a person has @largelabiaproject

My work is about the relationship a person has with their own body; as we never see ourselves as ‘objects’ in 3D like we see others, it’s bound to be a bizarre and uncomfortable relationship. I think we should love that, not worry that what we see doesn’t reconcile with how we see bodies as objects…

Do not reblog submission hi im 18 years old @largelabiaproject

DO NOT REBLOG - Submission: Hi, I’m 18 years old and this is my body!! I used to hate that my inner labia weren’t “tucked in” but I have found that sexual partners actually enjoy it! I love this project, thank you!!

Do not reblog submission hi emma im 24 @largelabiaproject

DO NOT REBLOG - Submission: Hi Emma! I’m 24 years old and I want you to share these intimate pictures of my labia on your blog. I discovered your blog a couple years back when I was doing my own search about why some girls have larger labia than others. For my whole teenage and young adult life I was very embarrassed by the length and protrusion of my lips.

Even the boy who I lost my virginity to right after sex said “Your pussy looks weird.” It broke my heart because now the boy I loved just confirmed my fears of having an ugly labia.

However, I am few years older now and have grown so much love for my body - especially my pretty pink vulva! I went from having NIGHTMARES to wanting to share my story and my pink bits to the world. It’s time to feel confident AND SEXY! I am so happy!

Do not reblog submission hello i am 31 years @largelabiaproject

DO NOT REBLOG - Submission: Hello. I am 31 years old and I’ve been fairly self-conscious about my vulva. Since I was about 10 years old I have felt like mine was different. Through the years I’ve found some men who like my “puffy” pussy but some men who are uneducated and who have a “fantasy” of what a vulva should look like due to the world of pornography.

Lately I’ve been more self-conscious about it than usual and have thought about undergoing surgery, due to it being uncomfortable, but mostly because I want to feel comfortable when my partner does oral on me.

I hope this photo helps and I hope to see it posted. Thank you!

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DO NOT REBLOG - Submission: My feelings toward my labia are slowly getting brighter and better. I actually think they’re cute! ✨

Do not reblog submission hey emmai really @largelabiaproject

DO NOT REBLOG - Submission: Hey Emma!I really appreciate everything you’ve done with this blog, as I’ve struggled with my asymmetrical labia since I’ve been sexually active. I’ve also always been pretty insecure since I’m a very hairy woman, and try and shave everything around my vulva regularly, so it’s great to see lots of different types of bodies and that they’re all beautiful!

Still working on my own acceptance, but wanted to put it out there that asymmetry is normal and it makes your vulva yours :)

Do not reblog submission i have always had @largelabiaproject

DO NOT REBLOG - Submission: I have always had large labia, I didn’t think it was strange, more that vaginas were strange in general. Having very little knowledge of even why it was there I didn’t question it. My mother never spoke of anything like that. I didnt even know about periods until I got one. 

As I got older it was the horrible words that were thrown around and porn bodies and women in adverts never having bulges that got to me and I thought / think there is something wrong with me. 

I’m 22 and still a virgin. I have this one massive insecurity and because of it I can’t stand anyone getting too close to me. There’s just this thing holding me back. I know I’ll get there some day but it makes me sad that I have so many desires and fantasies that I’m letting pass me by because I’m too scared to show them this part of me. It gets to me so bad sometimes and sometimes I actually quite like my vagina. I’m just waiting for the day I stop hating it.

I just want to express how furious this makes me @largelabiaproject

I just want to express how furious this makes me and how upsetting this probably is to many many women who pass by this on their Facebook feed. Who in their right mind would create something so false and drastically immature?! I am just baffled to how mean and cruel people are. Are people so ignorant and stupid enough to actually BELIEVE this garbage? I hope every large labia sister on here knows that this is bullshit and that you and your vulvas are perfect and beautiful and to NEVER forget it. I love you all. xx

Do not reblog submission im 20yo i have @largelabiaproject

DO NOT REBLOG - Submission: I’m 20yo. I have long, slightly dark, slightly asymmetrical labia and pubic hair (often more than shown; I gave her a haircut for the photo shoot :P) and I love my pussy! 

I was self-conscious about my labia and pubic hair in high school, but since then I’ve gained a sense of how diverse vulvas really are and how many people don’t shave, and I’ve grown to love my vulva. I wouldn’t change anything about it :D 

Thanks for everything you’re doing, Emma! 

Do not reblog submission hi im 18 and i @largelabiaproject

DO NOT REBLOG - Submission: Hi! I’m 18 and I have no problems what so ever with my labia and neither should you ladies they are all beautiful! Hope this helps some people! Love yourselves please, life is too short not to!

Do not reblog submission i found your blog @largelabiaproject

DO NOT REBLOG - Submission: I found your blog because I thought I was abnormal after seeing some of the stuff my husband was looking at online. He was watching porn, which also caused some insecurity for me because they do not look like I do. But whatever, I know I am beautiful and I think he appreciates me? 

Thanks for your blog, it’s nice to see that I am normal and that everyone is beautiful in their own way and unique. It’s nice to know that nothing is wrong with my labia. 

Your site has also opened up a new love for my large labia! I am 39 years old and I have three children, I have only had sex with one person.

Do not reblog submission hey there emma @largelabiaproject

DO NOT REBLOG - Submission: Hey there, Emma. It’s been a while since I’ve submitted, so I thought I’d share something!

I used to be super SUPER self conscious of my longer labia and how they would look in lace or see-through panties. This was an issue to me, because everyone else I knew could wear them and look absolutely adorable with their tucked vulvas. I was upset, because I wanted to look cute and precious too.

But when I would wear them or try to dress to impress my significant other, all I could see was the bulge of my labia and how awfully noticeable they were. I finally just gave up all together and stopped getting my hopes up at feeling confident.

Recently, I bought a pair (above) and I must say that I have never felt this good about my labia. I think they look precious!! I honestly don’t think I could have ever felt this way without the help of you and your blog and all of these amazing people here. Thank you guys so much. xx

Do not reblog submission im 19 im really @largelabiaproject

DO NOT REBLOG - Submission: I’m 19. I’m really insecure regarding my coloring down there. I’m way too dark and this looks purely gross. I feel brave for posting this anyway. I also want to thank you for your support and all. You’ve made a big difference.

Do not reblog submission hi i am 43 have @largelabiaproject

DO NOT REBLOG - Submission: Hi, I am 43, have had 6 kids and I love my labia. It is very sensual. My husband loves everything about me. Please love yourselves ladies you, are all beautiful.

Do not reblog submission i wax sometimes when @largelabiaproject

DO NOT REBLOG - Submission: I wax sometimes when I need to wear a bathing suit and I’ll be out of town this weekend but I feel more uncomfortable waxed because the hair hides my labia more :( I’m still trying to be confident. My boyfriend helps.

Do not reblog submission dear emma i am very @largelabiaproject

DO NOT REBLOG - Submission: Dear Emma, I am very glad to have found your sites, they have done a world of good for my confidence. I have always been very self conscious about my body, not least my vulva, though I realise that my labia are not big compared to many others in the project, I have until now been unhappy about how my vulva generally looks. So I am submitting some pictures of my vulva. Thanks so much for providing this forum, it is doing so much good for so many women, just taking these pictures was a confidence booster for me, would not have dreamed of it doing it before…

Do not reblog submission im 23 i used to @largelabiaproject

DO NOT REBLOG - Submission: I’m 23. I used to hate my labia. I thought it was ugly and abnormal for such a long time, I used to cry about it at night and wanted so badly to have surgery. I remember after an episode of ‘embarrassing bodies’ where there was a woman with large labia about to have surgery, I was convinced there was something wrong with me because my labia looked like hers. This and the fact that my first boyfriend of 3 years never went down on me, and often hearing horrible comments from men made me go to visit the doctor’s. 

She told me that I was normal, but I flat out refused to believe her and for years and years I hated my body.

This blog has been so incredibly helpful for me, I couldn’t believe that so many people looked like me and felt the same way, and I began to realise that we’re all beautiful and unique, like flowers. That coupled with having now had several partners who were very complimentary of my labia has made my confidence grow so much. 

Thank you for creating this space for people with vaginas. I’m finally starting to feel like I can love myself.

Do not reblog submission this is the @largelabiaproject

DO NOT REBLOG - Submission: This is “The Mistress”. Poor gal has just gotten over a UTI and a yeast infection [also known as “thrush” - Emma]. For future reference, pee and wash after you do any kind of sexual activity!!!! This will save you a WORLD of pain!!! PEE AND WASH, PEE AND WASH!!! And drink lots of cranberry juice. They make cranberry pills you can take too if you dont like cranberry juice.

Anyway. I’ve got largish labia minora. They’re lovely, I think. They remind me of a tulip or a rose or something :-) I should do another photoshoot of me putting flowers on her… Rue-ing my vagina. That should be a thing. Emma you should make a Rue-ing event where ladies cover their vaginas in flowers that remind them of their labia. :-)

Anyway, again, lol. I am 21 years old. I have been shaving for 7 years. My friend in high school was expressing her disgust for pubic hair as we watched a “miracle of life” video in health class. I had no idea people didn’t like pubic hair so her comments were a shock. I started to shave so I could “fit in” which was ridiculous because NO ONE saw me naked until I was in college, aside from my mom who thought I was crazy for shaving it.

Now that I’ve started, I don’t want to stop though. My pubic hair is suuuuper itchy and would get caught in my clothes and pull before I started shaving it. I don’t know how many of you have experienced a pulled pussy hair but can I just say…. Ow!!!!!

I am also not a virgin and I am a victim of sexual abuse. So ladies, sexual intercourse does NOT mutilate your lady bits, contrary to popular beliefs. Clearly The Mistress is in phenomenal condition and she continues to serve me well.

The exceptions to the rule of sex not effecting your vulva, of course, are if you were viciously attacked. I can’t call rape, sex though. It’s not. I do not want to turn a blind eye to those who WERE hurt during an attack. If you were, your lady bits are still beautiful. Ya know why? Because they’re yours and no one else on this planet has one like it.

But breaking ones hymen doesn’t magically turn your Mistress into a gaping hole. Not at all.

Pro tip if you shave your lady bits (a tip I ignored for this photoshoot). If you don’t want razor burn on your bits, let the hair grow out to about half a centimeter before you try to shave it again. When you DO shave, use shaving cream. You’ll be smooth as a baby’s backside :-) If you shave too early, you’ll cut yourself to shreds. I have yet to discover how to keep it shaved for weeks at a time without cutting myself to shreds so if anyone has figured that out, please let me know!!!

Submisison 6 six lips hi emmai am close @largelabiaproject

Submisison: 6 (six) lips !!??

Hi EmmaI am close to 60 and I still have the impression that I am different from all other. I never go to public places like Saunas etc. because I feel ashamed. Not only that my labias hang out but that there are 4! Labia minoras hanging out. Look at my picture. This sounds wear, but it seems that I have 6 labias in total and my clit is so small compared to others on your pictures.

Noooooo, you just have a set of two labia majora, and another set of two labia minora. Yu don’t have six! The shape of your labia minora just appears to give them a crease, with some additional skin. Labia minora have such a hugely varied range of appearances, and everybody is unique. No two labia are the same. 

There is no need to be ashamed, and no need to stop doing the things that you enjoy. Sure, not everyone wants people to stare between their legs, and if you’re feeling self conscious about your labia, then why not grow your pubic hair out, and let that provide some camouflage?


I am curious to whether my hymen is intact or not @largelabiaproject

I am curious to whether my hymen is intact or not because I am not sure. 

“Intact” is actually a red herring, because that implies that hymens break. They don’t. They actually stretch. The idea of breaking a hymen, popping the cherry etc is all a myth. You can read more about that here -  Vaginal Corona - Myths Surrounding Virginity


Submission i think i have relatively small labia @largelabiaproject

Submission: I think I have relatively small labia, but I’ve always been worried about my hair. I’ve always had a horrible time shaving… So, here’s to celebrating my vulva! Hair and all.

Little lips are welcome too, and pubes are awesome! There’s no need to shave and there are so many benefits in having hair, so let ‘em grow baby! Thanks so much for being part of this project.


Submission hi emma im a 42 year old mother of @largelabiaproject

Submission: Hi Emma, I’m a 42 year old  mother of two from somewhere in Europe. A few month ago I discovered your wonderful blog. Here is my contribution. I never felt that I have big labia, and the father of my children and my partners never told be anything derogatory about my vulva.

Submission hello my 27 year old vulva @largelabiaproject

Submission: Hello :) My 27 year old vulva.

Submission thank you so much emma for your blog @largelabiaproject

Submission: Thank you so much Emma for your blog. I recently discovered it and it has helped me a lot and has helped me gain self confidence in my vulva and I now know my vulva is beautiful! xxx