Submission: I masturbated with a clean, unused curling iron and it felt really good. It didn’t feel crazy awesome or too much different from when I initially started but then this (in the picture) was on the tip of it and in between the place where you put your hair in the curling iron. Is this cum? I didn’t shudder or tense like they say women do when they cum or anything. And it felt a little better but I’ve read a few things and they say you are supposed to know when you cum. You just know. But I never have before and I only get this white stuff when I use the curling iron for long enough. It doesn’t gush or stream out of my vagina but it is in between the curling iron when I’m done masturbating usually. Do you know what it is?
First off, please be careful with the toys or objects that you use for masturbation. The vagina has its own ecosystem of good bacteria that helps keep it healthy. Putting things inside of it that weren’t designed for that purpose, and may be less than clean, like a curling iron, can introduce bad bacteria and lead to an infection.
If you enjoy using your curling iron that’s great. But get yourself a box of condoms as put a condone over it, so that when you masturbate you’re using something clean and designed for use inside of a vagina. It will also provide a smoother surface which will protect the delicate lining of the vaginal walls and prevent nicks and cuts. That can easily happen and if you see a small amount of blood after masturbation it’s most likely because you have given yourself a small cut. The vagina doesn’t have many nerves deeper inside so you wouldn’t even feel it.
Orgasms are different for everybody, and nobody can tell how another person feels. But in my personal experience, and the general view about these things, with an orgasm:
- you will have a period of time when you have intense pleasure building up, generally focused on your clitoris, vulva (your clit, labia minora and majora), inside your pelvic area and vagina, and sometimes even your anus.
- when you actually climax it feels like a massive release and a flood of pleasure exploding through you and involving rhythmic contractions of the vaginal/pelvic muscles, followed by a sense of well-being and ahhhhhhh.
It is very noticeable and different to the pleasure of just feeling horny.
Not everyone can orgasm. But for those of is who can, the clitoris should be your focal point. It’s sole purpose in life is to make you orgasm. So sure, enjoy using something inside of you, but your focus would be better on touching and rubbing your clitoris. Just experiment with what feels good and sometimes you just have to let yourself go and enjoy why happens.
Now that creamy fluid in the photos is just regular everyday cervical / vaginal discharge. Presumably it’s also mixed with the clear fluid your vagina secretes when you’re sexually aroused - that’s what comes out when people say they are “wet” when they are horny.
It is not female ejaculate (also called cum). I don’t have statistics but not many people with vaginas ejaculate, or cum, as I think you’re meaning. People with penises ejaculate semen (commonly called cum), which is often thick and creamy grey. That’s very different to what some people with vaginas have when they ejaculate, which tends to be more watery and clear, and can be a small trickle to a big gush of liquid. It comes either from the urethra (pee hole) or little gland openings either side of it.
Don’t worry about whether you can ejaculate or not. See what works though when touching your clitoris, and be careful with that curling iron. And relax, that creamy stuff is totally normal.