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Love Your Labia @lovelargelabia

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A body-positive blog for women who may be seeking a little reassurance that their labia are normal! Spreading the news that large lips are just as normal as large noses, or hands, or eyes, or bums, or boobs, or feet - you get the idea - It's normal! The letters displayed show what a huge difference we've already made to helping those with larger lips realise that it's totally normal - despite what society/media/unrealistic pornography/narrow-minded people would have us believe. Tell us your thoughts, ask a question, submit a photo and be part of showing others with large lips that it's nothing worth losing any sleep over at all. The intention of this tumblr is to educate, inform and reassure; not as a source of pornography or an attempt to arouse. It is NOT a dating site/a lonely hearts column/an appropriate place to tell us your wildest fantasies. Supportive or constructive responses and contributions only, please. 18+ only, NSFW, Please certify 18+ with submissions or we will WILL DELETE & NOT post the item. - Love Your Labia (@lovelargelabia)
I am a 40 year old woman and as i grew older i @lovelargelabia

I am a 40 year old woman and as I grew older I became more and more self-conscious about my labia. I don’t know what started it, or when, and no lover of mine ever complained (I hid them as much I as I could), so I’m guessing it’s all about the media. It is so stupid society does this. I am tall, have long legs and fingers, large breasts also, so it would be only natural I would have large labia, but I thought I was a freak.
I just wish I had known this blog earlier. This is the first time I ever talk about this, and it feels great. I think I´m finally starting to accept and enjoy how I am, and by doing so I will also be able to enjoy sex more. 

Im 25 ive been very self conscious over my @lovelargelabia

I’m 25. I’ve been very self conscious over my naked body, not only do I have larger lips but inverted nipples too.. I’ve often considered surgery for both! (absurd i know!) But can I just say Thankyou for this site, and all your posts from my fellow larger lipped gals.. You’re all just so beautiful and I feel very supported and comforted to see I’m not alone. Lets embrace out beauty!

I am 25 years old i felt like there was something @lovelargelabia

I am 25 years old. I felt like there was something wrong with me and only in the past few years have I begun to research large labia thinking that I was the only one with big lips. I have grown to accept my labia as beautiful and I am happy to see that there are other women out there like me. Thanks in part to a guy that I was with who loved them. I have confidence in myself and my sexuality. Thank you for sites like this one, allowing woman to embrace themselves as who they are. Beautiful.

Im 38 and have been comparing my labia to others @lovelargelabia

I’m 38 and have been comparing my labia to others my whole life just like many others on here. It is such a relief to not be alone. Thank you for helping me start to feel normal and beautiful. 

Great news!!

Ive been extremely insecure about my vagina since @lovelargelabia

I’ve been extremely insecure about my vagina since I was 18. I’m 22 now. I hated how dark the outer part of the lips are, and how there is, what seems like, excess skin along the perineum. I felt like I caused this excess tissue from masturbation, which may be true. I still have days were I hate my vagina and feel dirty/ugly because of the coloration, and would be happy to have a surgery to remove the perineum tissue (what looks like skin tags), but never the labia!! I’m really happy to have found this blog, I feel better about myself, and everything I’ve seen here is unique and beautiful it it’s own way. Stay strong girls!!

I love the way my pussy feels and the way i can @lovelargelabia

I love the way my pussy feels, and the way i can make it feel. I like the color, tightness, and my high sex drive. As long as i can remember I’ve struggled to love my lips, I’ve considered labiaplasty, and although this blog has helped me to realize how unique & beautiful everyone is I still feel for me to fully appreciate my body i may have it done eventually before 30, I am 27 now, besides being cosmetic it can be uncomfortable sometimes during sex & other activities, and I feel self conscious in underwear bikinis etc…. Thank you for sharing this site, and helping women have a more realistic view on their bodies :))

Thank you. We thought it important to post your message because you’re not contemplating a labiaplasty due to being uninformed or or unaware of what normal labia look like. At the end of the day, a person’s peace of mind and comfort in themselves is what’s important. It’s easy to jump on the ban/forbid/prevent labiaplasty bandwagon - but that would be just as irresponsible and short-sighted. To have the operation when you’re young and subject to so many conflicting (uninformed) opinions is unwise, but as with any cosmetic surgery, once you’ve reached an age where you can make an informed, mature and rational decision it’d be silly to still insist that you don’t do it.

However, bear in mind that once it’s gone, it’s gone: along with all of the benefits you mention in your first sentence. Is several thousand dollars value for money to slice off a normal part of your body that no-one but you and your lover will see, and with the benefits it also brings? If it were really that much of an issue, wouldn’t you have done it already by now?

Ive finally plucked up the courage to post my @lovelargelabia
I’ve finally plucked up the courage to post my “butterfly wings”. Having always thought that I was the only one with big lips I never appreciated how beautiful they are. Thanks to this great blog I am loving my lips more than ever. When I was younger I used to hide in PE class and tried to avoid showering with the other girls as much as I could. A few years ago I embraced  naturism but up until recently used to close my legs as much as possible whilst on the beach. Thanks to your blog and a few words of encouragement I now openly show my lips on the beach and love doing it. There’s nothing better than feeling the sun on them! I even get looks from other women which I am starting to appreciate too. I’m sure they feel a pang of jealously wishing they had lips like mine. I now think they are beautiful and having them I am extremly lucky. 
34 years old.

Another variation on a theme @lovelargelabia

Another variation on a theme

24 yr old woman here just wanting to contribute @lovelargelabia

24 yr old woman here, just wanting to contribute.

And thank you for doing so :)

Another view of lifes great tapestry @lovelargelabia

Another view of life’s great tapestry.

Sometimes a photo says a thousand words unknown @lovelargelabia

Sometimes, a photo says a thousand words. Unknown pro model. 

I am annabelle a french woman 40 years old @lovelargelabia

I am Annabelle, a french woman, 40 years old.


I am in my thirties and have always been paranoid @lovelargelabia

I am in my thirties and have always been paranoid that I have too much down there. This blog has done wonders for my self image.  If my photo is well liked I may submit others.

Of course your photo will be liked. Thanks for contributing.

19 year old female 140 pounds 58 im sexually @lovelargelabia

19 year old female, 140 pounds, 5'8

I’m sexually active, but I’ve never had actual vaginal penetration or let a guy touch me any farther than my underwear due to the fact that I’m extremely concerned about how my labia is supposed to look. Coming across this site has made me feel a lot better knowing that I’m not abnormal and that there are women that are even longer and/or bigger than me, labia wise. I’m still afraid that I’m going to turn some guy off if they go down on me or see it and say something rude and then not want me. But now I know that it’s just because they’re either immature or just an ass and don’t know that those words can hurt a female that’s worried about how they look down there. It’s like if you comment on how small their penis is, it’s going to hurt their pride or ego and then have them worried about their size.

Thank you so much for making this tumblr blog. You don’t know how much you’ve made a difference for some women.


The pleasure is ours! Thanks for being a part of our blog.

Hello i think your blog is a great @lovelargelabia


I think your blog is a great initiative! It is about time that somebody shows women that size doesn’t matter!:)

I am a woman of 37. I have always been very shy about my lips, although my boyfriends were never freaked out by them. I would like to contribute with my picture.

Thank you.

from Belgium

Great blog i just turned 30 and despite no @lovelargelabia

Great blog -  I just turned 30 - and despite no negativity from my husband whatsoever, I was beginning to feel (mostly from seeing porn) that I was a mess, getting saggy with age - all that stupid stuff. Porn has a lot to answer for in setting unrealistic expectations both in our partners and ourselves.

Seeing all these normal ladybits made me realise that I’m way off base. Normal women still look normal. I took a picture - and you know what, I think it looks pretty good on reflection!

Thank you. This is a fantastic resource for women

You’re very welcome - and we love compliments! Thanks for the lovely message and photo.

Age 34 2 kids thats all this contributor @lovelargelabia

Age 34, 2 kids. 

That’s all this contributor said.