What is happening here?
The easy bit is the physical - as well as playing with his erection she is doing something (a toy or her hand) with his anus.
But what about their feelings?
A common BDSM fantasy is that he is being forced to endure this anal play. But the men who have this fantasy would love this to happen to them, which possibly results in them pressuring their partner to force them to submit to this :)
With Devotional Sex the feelings will be much more straightforward.
A Princess is usually a non-dominant and caring woman. In my 15 years of living Devotional Sex I can’t think of one time that a Princess has ‘forced’ me to endure an activity that my Princess knew I didn’t like.
So if this is part of Devotional Sex both know that he is wanting this to happen. Of course he will feel very much hers, and this may also be slightly physically challenging, but both know that he is living out one of his fantasies.
And what about her?
A Princess is comfortable hearing about her Knight’s fantasies because she decides whether or not anything he says will actually happen.
So the first bit of Devotional Sex reality for men who would enjoy the above activity is that it is very possible that your Princess will decide that this is something that she never wants to do.
In this photo, if this were Devotional Sex, she might be doing this mainly as a reward for her Knight.
Even though she enjoys his reactions and the session is a huge success I’ve learned that this doesn’t mean that it will happen again. The non-kinky sexual activities when practicing Devotional Sex are always amazing and there is lots more sexual activity. But when it comes to kink, giving her real control over what happens usually means that there is much less kink than I would like.
But her deciding what happens also means that if she wants this to happen often then it will. So perhaps, for this couple, this might be a weekly ritual which they both enjoy.
Before I discovered Devotional Sex like many men I sometimes succeeded in convincing a partner to do something kinky. Often these sessions didn’t go well because my partner felt pressured into doing this and thus didn’t enjoy it.
The great thing about kink within Devotional Sex is that the session is usually a great success because it only happens when my Princess decides to make it happen.
So Devotional Sex makes things better for me and better for her!