When I met her she seemed scared of sex and so shy of her own body that it was painful. She was so ashamed of her sagging tits that she refused to make love with the lights on. At first she even slept with her bra on.
The night I saw her ruined tits for the first time she sobbed and couldn’t uncover her face. This was ridiculous and had to stop–I couldn’t have my girlfriend break down every time I wanted to strip her naked after all.
My solution was an absolute “no clothing at home” rule. At first she freaked out and threatened to end our relationship but after I explained my thinking she reluctantly agreed.
At first it was slow going she walked around with her hands trying to cover everything…but as the days, then weeks, then months, past she grew to embrace the freedom from shame and embraced it.
Now a year later she is much more sexual and confident. She accepts that her tits sag to her stomach and her nipples point to her toes but realizes that she is still sexually attractive and exciting.
There is still room for improvement though, since she still gets flustered when I invite friends over…